Next time she calls and she sounds bad or for whatever reason, call the police to do a welfare check. If she threatening suicide call the police for a welfare check for suicide, especially if she puts it in a text you have proof.
“I felt like she should have made an effort to suggest us work out together but she never did”
If she had taken this approach instead, would you have then asked her if she was suggesting that because she wasn't attracted to you? Would you have said or asked anything along those lines that would have backed her into an impossible corner and led to the exact same outcome you're experiencing now?
Just be honest with your answer. Because I don't buy for a second that you'd have heard “let's start working out together” and not somehow started questioning her attraction to you.
It sounds like he’s trying to guilt trip you into having sex with him. That’s a huge red flag. Please, for your safety and comfort, please leave him.
Next time she calls and she sounds bad or for whatever reason, call the police to do a welfare check. If she threatening suicide call the police for a welfare check for suicide, especially if she puts it in a text you have proof.
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They’re getting downvoted because no one should tolerate a partner whose solution is to LOCK THE HARD WATER HEATER GOOD GOD
Yes.
“I felt like she should have made an effort to suggest us work out together but she never did”
If she had taken this approach instead, would you have then asked her if she was suggesting that because she wasn't attracted to you? Would you have said or asked anything along those lines that would have backed her into an impossible corner and led to the exact same outcome you're experiencing now?
Just be honest with your answer. Because I don't buy for a second that you'd have heard “let's start working out together” and not somehow started questioning her attraction to you.
Female is XX just so ya know…
It sounds like he’s trying to guilt trip you into having sex with him. That’s a huge red flag. Please, for your safety and comfort, please leave him.