part of me want to let him back in because my kid deserves a dad and i don’t deserve to go thru this alone.
Tough love incoming! Your kid deserves a good dad, not just a sperm donor. And when you say this about you going it alone, your choices put you here.
Don't get me wrong, he sounds like a complete jerk and that part isn't your fault. But…by far, the biggest decision a mom makes is who that child's father is. It's fair to say you botched this.
I mention it because you didn't say anything about adoption. This would be the best thing for all 3 of you. If you google adoption agencies, you'll quickly see that there are several kinds of adoption, and you can choose which one you like. If you want to be in the child's life down the road, you'd pick an open one.
This is the most selfless thing a mom can do if she's not able to bring her child into the world with 2 loving, committed parents.
Just be up front with the next guy porn is a very hot line for you. You’re not going to be happy and you’re probably driving him up the wall with this.
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part of me want to let him back in because my kid deserves a dad and i don’t deserve to go thru this alone.
Tough love incoming! Your kid deserves a good dad, not just a sperm donor. And when you say this about you going it alone, your choices put you here.
Don't get me wrong, he sounds like a complete jerk and that part isn't your fault. But…by far, the biggest decision a mom makes is who that child's father is. It's fair to say you botched this.
I mention it because you didn't say anything about adoption. This would be the best thing for all 3 of you. If you google adoption agencies, you'll quickly see that there are several kinds of adoption, and you can choose which one you like. If you want to be in the child's life down the road, you'd pick an open one.
This is the most selfless thing a mom can do if she's not able to bring her child into the world with 2 loving, committed parents.
im sorry for the awful formatting. its naked to copy paste because there is no images in the sub allowed
Just be up front with the next guy porn is a very hot line for you. You’re not going to be happy and you’re probably driving him up the wall with this.