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Iām so sorry for what happened to you in the past and totally understand freezing/not being able to just say no in situations like that, just wanted to validate you there. As everyone says this is something you need to work on though (since he canāt read your mind).
Also, I went through your post history. So you say he has unresolved issues -he is in debt with no intention to clear it, still married, caught with weed etc. You yourself are going through some trauma too. What do you expect from this relationship? What advice do you expect from reddit, since apparently you didnāt even take any?
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What a doucheā¦. The wife and I had 4 pregnancies, 2 ectopics, 1 that we lost at 23 weeks, his name was Mason and then our last pregnancy we got our daughter, Millie. Sheās now 2. Anyways, I musta went to 200 ultrasounds and not once did I ever think they were cringe or disgusting. Grow the fuck up dude
Yea I wouldnāt be having kids with someone that cannot be there for a simple ultrasound. I remember my best friend (sadly) lost her child and her husband was there for everything holding her hand. He was the one communicating to her friends and family to update everyone. Literally only missed one appointment because of his job. I canāt imagine doing that alone. Things can go wrong in childbirth. You need a partner for this.
Iām with you, thatās kinda like sticking your finger through the fence with a tiger on the other side. And the drinking shouldnāt be going on thatās for sure!
This ā?
If she told you this in the beginning, would you still have given her a chance?
I didnāt even want to meet my husband, but my cousin convinced me to go if she tagged along. She was basically the 3rd wheel, but he was a good sport about it (he knew I was bringing her). I was still unsure after the date, but he wouldnāt leave me alone, lol. The rest is history. We dated and eventually fell in love, but we both knew it was never love at first sight. We talk about it when our anniversary comes around. He likes to tell people how he sent out the same message to a bunch of other women, but heās lucky Iām the one who responded. I like our story, because itās not a fairy tale. Not every relationship starts as a Disney movie, but that doesnāt mean we love each other less.
I think you should go to individual and couples therapy. I know you say you got over your insecurities, and I understand why you would feel this way again, but it doesnāt cancel out the last 7 years or your wifeās love. I know itās hot to think about, but donāt let this fester for long. Start seeing a therapist now to work on your insecurities, and so you can explain to your wife how she hurt your feelings. If you two love each other thatās all that matters, but work on healthy communication.
Adults don't just “make out” dude, and you know that.
āother than the pain it will cause my friendā and āis it best to keep him in the darkā Choose wisely because there will be no going back. Lose your friend forever to be someoneās rebound or be loyal to your 15 year friendship?
Did you ask your therapist about sending sex toys?
I know and like I said there is no excuse for it. I need to hear the noise. Thanks for letting me hear it
you're already broken up, you just don't realize it yet. it's ok. move on.
Obviously it's up to you, but my philosophy is that if you're asking strangers on the internet for advice, you're probably not ready. If you really wanted to do it, you would have just done it without asking these questions.
You're 22. You're old enough to know that people on reddit are going to see your age gap and the fact that you haven't even considered swinging before as a huge red flag.
If I were you? I personally wouldn't go. Not because I'm against swinging (I've been there, done that and it was fun) but because he's sprung this on you and you've initiated exactly none of it. It also sounds dodgy as fuck that his fantasy is watching his friends take turns with you. Take some time to think about what YOU want and don't let him pressure you. If you decide to go, do it on your own terms and schedule. If he's any kind of a decent human being, he'll understand that this is a massive step out of your comfort zone and he can't just expect you to be his ex-wife, or magically have the experience of someone a decade or two older than you.
(As an aside, I've noticed that in your comments, whenever anyone's questioned your relationship, you tell them he “is nice” or “is kind”. That's an interesting word choice – those are very weak adjectives. When most people talk about their relationship, they don't say that: they say “I love him”, or he “is incredible”, or “the most amazing person I've ever met”. Something to think about).