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You keep saying you tell him to end it. Here’s the thing. Your an adult, you don’t like what’s happening in a relationship then you end it.
Having said that let me give you a piece of advice from someone older. If you have a first date with someone and sleep with someone else that same night don’t go on a second date with them. They will eventually find out what you did after that first date and will never be comfortable with you. Their mind will forever be telling them “Yeah they liked me so much they had to screw someone else.”
Sorry but it’s a relationship killer before you even get started.
You two need to talk about expectations in your relationship. For example, me and my boyfriend don't have to ask permission to invite friends back to our places but we do ask permission from each other to share a bed with friends. I know that sounds like a very detailed conversation to have but you don't have to go through every single scenario together. Just a general “here are things that make me feel uncomfortable” talk. Not enough people have them. Looks like you, subconsciously, expect your girlfriend's to not invite male friends to her apartment. Your girlfriend expects inviting male friends to her apartment to be okay with you. Neither of you did anything wrong, you just made assumptions based on your own experience and mindset, and that's okay.
I get why you're concerned about his friendships. And isolation can be an indicator depression, but he could also just be an introvert, who's perfectly fine having text conversations with one or two friends. Which one it is, is really difficult to tell from the outside, in fact, it can be hard to tell from inside if mental health issues are playing tricks on one's mind and emotions.
I hope you and he can get started on some fruitful conversations about how to move forward.
OP, this is NOT something you can ignore, or sort out on your own.
I know that right now, you feel like your father sacrificed everything for you, and you owe it to him to protect him. But he knew what he was doing from the beginning. He has had plenty of time & opportunity to come clean, but he hasn’t. And even now, when confronted with his lies, he isn’t taking ownership. He is still expecting you to take the blame.
It sucks, but you need to protect yourself right now, otherwise this is the kind of mess that you will be cleaning up for the rest of your life.
And if he has done this to you, how do you know he hasn’t done the same to your brothers? You need to speak up.
You keep saying you tell him to end it. Here’s the thing. Your an adult, you don’t like what’s happening in a relationship then you end it.
Having said that let me give you a piece of advice from someone older. If you have a first date with someone and sleep with someone else that same night don’t go on a second date with them. They will eventually find out what you did after that first date and will never be comfortable with you. Their mind will forever be telling them “Yeah they liked me so much they had to screw someone else.”
Sorry but it’s a relationship killer before you even get started.
No. Stop being juvenile.
He deserves the felony. Have you considered that he literally would have escalated the abuse to the point he murdered you? He proved it already.
You two need to talk about expectations in your relationship. For example, me and my boyfriend don't have to ask permission to invite friends back to our places but we do ask permission from each other to share a bed with friends. I know that sounds like a very detailed conversation to have but you don't have to go through every single scenario together. Just a general “here are things that make me feel uncomfortable” talk. Not enough people have them. Looks like you, subconsciously, expect your girlfriend's to not invite male friends to her apartment. Your girlfriend expects inviting male friends to her apartment to be okay with you. Neither of you did anything wrong, you just made assumptions based on your own experience and mindset, and that's okay.
Glad I could help.
I get why you're concerned about his friendships. And isolation can be an indicator depression, but he could also just be an introvert, who's perfectly fine having text conversations with one or two friends. Which one it is, is really difficult to tell from the outside, in fact, it can be hard to tell from inside if mental health issues are playing tricks on one's mind and emotions.
I hope you and he can get started on some fruitful conversations about how to move forward.
Do you or him have any family or any close friends that you trust to watch your kids for a few days for free or low cost (cheaper than a babysitter)?
OP, this is NOT something you can ignore, or sort out on your own.
I know that right now, you feel like your father sacrificed everything for you, and you owe it to him to protect him. But he knew what he was doing from the beginning. He has had plenty of time & opportunity to come clean, but he hasn’t. And even now, when confronted with his lies, he isn’t taking ownership. He is still expecting you to take the blame.
It sucks, but you need to protect yourself right now, otherwise this is the kind of mess that you will be cleaning up for the rest of your life.
And if he has done this to you, how do you know he hasn’t done the same to your brothers? You need to speak up.
You should dump her for the same reasons everyone is telling op to dump his energy vampire.