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End it. Have you two been tested for stds before having sex the first time? Yes pregnancy is obviously an issue too, but you should also get tested now.
Ok I’m playing the devils advocate here but I’ve been on the other side of this. Read all of this post before you downvote or judge me.
I added my wife’s friend and we chatted. This was when we were still dating. We didn’t chat everyday but maybe once or twice a week. She knew we were talking and didn’t bother her, as her friend was in a relationship with a guy that we were all friends with. Her friend and I grew up in the same area so we had stuff to talk about.
Now one day her friend sent me some messages late at night. I didn’t want my then gf to see, so I hate deleted them. My gf then said “who was texting you this late?” And I brushed it off and lied by saying “work”.
Now. If you preface all that you can easily assume I’m a MASSIVE asshole right. Or something of the caliber? Comments here would be screaming that I’m a cheat and was either emotionally or physically fucking her friend.
HELL no. I was asking her to make a engagement ring for my gf. Her friend was a jeweler. That late night text was confirmation that it was ready and I could go pick it up!
So please, everyone, stop being so quick to judge.
Yeah it’s just naked because I really like her but one of the jobs I’m interviewing for that is my dream job is 6 hours away. We’ve actually been dating for 5 months
Phew, glad there was a non-terrible ending here.
Very close.
Boundaries are artificial limits and expectations negotiated between individuals.
To have boundaries the players all need to have reasonable communication skills,
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Boundaries are NOT imposed or leveraged with consequences. Those are
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So……is your live-in guest up to the challenge of negotiating
productive Boundaries?
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Stop being a doormat OP and leave him.
What a massive creep he and all his friends are. By the sounds of it he probably talks the most shit about you behind your back to his friends.
End it. Have you two been tested for stds before having sex the first time? Yes pregnancy is obviously an issue too, but you should also get tested now.
Ok I’m playing the devils advocate here but I’ve been on the other side of this. Read all of this post before you downvote or judge me.
I added my wife’s friend and we chatted. This was when we were still dating. We didn’t chat everyday but maybe once or twice a week. She knew we were talking and didn’t bother her, as her friend was in a relationship with a guy that we were all friends with. Her friend and I grew up in the same area so we had stuff to talk about.
Now one day her friend sent me some messages late at night. I didn’t want my then gf to see, so I hate deleted them. My gf then said “who was texting you this late?” And I brushed it off and lied by saying “work”.
Now. If you preface all that you can easily assume I’m a MASSIVE asshole right. Or something of the caliber? Comments here would be screaming that I’m a cheat and was either emotionally or physically fucking her friend.
HELL no. I was asking her to make a engagement ring for my gf. Her friend was a jeweler. That late night text was confirmation that it was ready and I could go pick it up!
So please, everyone, stop being so quick to judge.
Yeah it’s just naked because I really like her but one of the jobs I’m interviewing for that is my dream job is 6 hours away. We’ve actually been dating for 5 months
Block her and move on.
It would be 0% for me.