Passing off a table to leave work early has lower stakes than leaving a surgery early. That’s not demeaning.
Nobody is a mind reader. He thought what she needed was a couple work and a spontaneous trip the the spa, which she’d previously expressed interest in.
I don’t think it’s about work at all and agree with other commenters that she’s already checked out of the relationship
It hurts but you are making the right decision. On one hand, you can take the view that you are free to do exactly what you want without your family having an opinion. They sound toxic in any case. Your sister only sees her POV and holds her beater bf above you. She has reaped what she sowed. She should tell police and move away from him. Parents can take kids. In any way, it isn’t your problem. You are thrust scapegoat in all matters. Remove yourself from their poison and negativity and enjoy your life and gifts with people who love and respect you.
Therapy is probably a good idea. You're also unlikely to get 'better' advice than your dad, because hes 110% right.
Passing off a table to leave work early has lower stakes than leaving a surgery early. That’s not demeaning.
Nobody is a mind reader. He thought what she needed was a couple work and a spontaneous trip the the spa, which she’d previously expressed interest in.
I don’t think it’s about work at all and agree with other commenters that she’s already checked out of the relationship
It hurts but you are making the right decision. On one hand, you can take the view that you are free to do exactly what you want without your family having an opinion. They sound toxic in any case. Your sister only sees her POV and holds her beater bf above you. She has reaped what she sowed. She should tell police and move away from him. Parents can take kids. In any way, it isn’t your problem. You are thrust scapegoat in all matters. Remove yourself from their poison and negativity and enjoy your life and gifts with people who love and respect you.