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I think its a bit unfair that youre leaving the decision to him when you’re definitely already confusing him. Firstly, I understand liking being touched by yourself, but not someone else, but you have to understand that creates a weird dynamic. Especially since you guys are married, its probably a challenge for him to truly understand your wants and needs if you dont feel comfortable opening up. Secondly, you being okay not finishing doesnt mean that he feels equally good about that. There’s probably some added pressure for him knowing that he cant get you to where you need to be, but you can. You clearly have major MAJOR anxiety around sex, and that is either in some way related to your past or your mother. Youre not doing much to solve these issues though by pushing the decision to get some intimacy help onto your husband. You need to find the root if these issues and lean into your partner for support. Either that or he is likely to continue feeling frustrated, which as you can see already has its side effects.
How come 4 kids? Especially if it seems as though money may be an issue
Yep. We had a huuuuge walk in closet when I was growing up and we were poor. Poor as in we were homeless once. That closet could have fit more than 50 hoodies lol.
It wasn't a good neighborhood though but it wasn't in the real dangerous part of town.
I definitely understand I’m part of the problem. Early in the relationship I noticed my SOs being quick to anger and I ignored the red flags. Now our finance are completely intertwined and I feel trapped. My SO is noticing I’m more distant. I’m trying to maintain a normal facade but it’s not easy. I just feel like I’m standing on the edge of a cliff and I still have the chance to stop it all, however each morning when I come into work a wave of bliss just washes over me and I’m in a stupidly good mood all day.
In addition, I am the main breadwinner by far in this relationship. If I leave her I’m worried it would break her. She would not be able to make it I fear.
On so let’s say you break your leg 30 years from now after y’all have been married for 30 years. Pay attention. Who gives AF what she wants. She not even worth this post.
Huh? I don’t think A is negative? It’s just general. I don’t get why? Is that why it’s downvote?????
Try a text or email to the effect of, “I’m sorry I’ve been distant. When you cancelled plans it really stung. I know it wasn’t your fault, but I’m not good with disappointment. Be patient with me. I’ll do better.”
You’d have to give more context. Your post is very vague.
I mod a stepmom group and am a stepmom myself. The number one complaint our members tend to have is that dad lacks good boundaries with mom and it impacts SM.
Example: when I was first with my (ex) husband who had 50/50, it seemed that anytime we had plans on a night we weren’t supposed to have the kids, mom would call and ask if she could drop the kids off. And my husband would agree and cancel our plans without even talking to me. I finally started hiring a babysitter for backup every time we had plans so his ex couldn’t ruin our night. Wouldn’t ya know, she stopped once she figured that out. But my husband would never tell her no.
Example: ex wife would just show up and let herself into our house to “get something for the kids”. Like we could be home asleep and she’d let herself in. She’d show up when we weren’t home and take things to “borrow”. I had to put up with that for a couple years before I put my foot down as she took my DOG. Once we took the keys away, she even tried to break into our house through the dog door.
My (ex) husband just would never tell her no because he was afraid she’d withhold the kids and it was “easier” than just making her stick to the custody order. He was so averse to having conflict with her but no problem with me—I was just supposed to suck it up.
My current partner has a good coparenting relationship with his ex with solid boundaries. We are flexible for things like vacations or whatnot but otherwise, she is responsible for kiddo on her time. My partner handles all of the communication. I am not in a role where I have all of the responsibility and no authority. He has it under control.
So I don’t know what your situation is but if you’re bending over backwards for your ex and it’s impacting your partner then that’s a you problem. Stick to the custody schedule and plan.
Thanks I really appreciate that ur here, I've been trying to keep my head straight but sometimes get into bad thought spirals.
I can't really move out my house tho, I'm on the hook for rent for the rest of the year and I live! in a big city so everywhere is stupid monies. I barely managed to get therapy through uni so I know the resources out there are strained to say the least.
No cause my current gf got the calls first and there’s no way the my ex would had gotten her number
When you are sexually thrilled by your partner and he says “I wish I were bigger for you,” you need to tell him that he wants to be bigger for himself. Because it wasn't you who asked him to have a bigger dick. You should help him redirect his mindset.
Well firstly don’t tell her you don’t need to be the prettiest girl in the world. You can’t do anything to make her stop feeling the way she feels – which isn’t uncommon at her age. I feel like in the year between 30 and 40 my body changed so much that it almost felt like I wasn’t even myself and I really struggled with the way I looked. And I know objectively those changes weren’t even that large and were bigger to me than others but they still really felt like a big deal.
Tell her when you think she’s looking pretty, don’t just think it. If that dress makes the colour of her eyes pop, mention it. If her hair is looking especially soft or shiny or whatever – tell her. Notice the little things. Sometimes those little things quietly chip away at the louder voice telling you you’re not pretty and turn the volume down a little.