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Former anorexic here, though it was when I was preteen/teenager, so my view may be different than someone struggling in their 20s.
You said he’s not willing to see a specialist. That’s a deal breaker. He’s not willing (maybe not able?) to do the work to recover and then is using you as another therapist.
I’d leave because he’s not willing to do the work and is dumping on you. If he were to see a specialist (I know it’s incredibly scary to do so, and I had an awful recovery experience that I had to unpack with a better therapist when I was older, so the fear is rational tbh, but this turns into a life or death situation if he doesn’t recover and gets worse) up his therapy sessions to 2-3 a week, or go in-patient, I’d maybe consider staying with him.
You already gave yourself your answer. Pack his stuff up and send him home to mom. You obviously have family help and support. Finish your schooling, you can take care of your family. He isn't.
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Former anorexic here, though it was when I was preteen/teenager, so my view may be different than someone struggling in their 20s.
You said he’s not willing to see a specialist. That’s a deal breaker. He’s not willing (maybe not able?) to do the work to recover and then is using you as another therapist.
I’d leave because he’s not willing to do the work and is dumping on you. If he were to see a specialist (I know it’s incredibly scary to do so, and I had an awful recovery experience that I had to unpack with a better therapist when I was older, so the fear is rational tbh, but this turns into a life or death situation if he doesn’t recover and gets worse) up his therapy sessions to 2-3 a week, or go in-patient, I’d maybe consider staying with him.
Stop posting fake shit on here. you're taking away from people who actually need help with their problems
You already gave yourself your answer. Pack his stuff up and send him home to mom. You obviously have family help and support. Finish your schooling, you can take care of your family. He isn't.
If your antidepressants make you feel high like weed or cocaine, you need to consult with your doctor because that’s not the intended effect
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