Thank you. I am aware that I am racist, as that’s my culture and how I was raised too. I guess I’ll have to accept that there are things I cannot change, even though she can do much better
Oh man…my wife has the best nose I've ever seen in my life. It's the hookiest-witch nose kind….but it drives me wild every time I see it. She once mentioned that she hated her nose…and from then on, whenever I see her walk past (and I see it in all its glory), I stop her to tell her that she has the best and most beautiful nose I've ever seen.
She's also said several times that she wants a boob job, and each time, I tell her that it's 100% her choice, but I think what she has is already perfect. Eventually when I asked about it, she said something along the lines of, “Well, you like them so that's all that matters.”
I also asked her if I should get a penis extension, as I'm less than average length…of course, she said she loves it and wouldn't want me to change a thing. I guess that's how you know your spouse loves you.
when it comes to helping me he will help as he did 3 weeks ago. he came over anf helped and that was only after i saved his ass lol. its been so back and forth…
like he would come over and talk to me. on his bday i didnt wish him (october) and he messaged me he saw my car lol.
then a week later he sent me a picture of. me. first day of classes he wanted to see me.
i asked to talk in september and thats when he dismissed it … as he was busy with client stuff.
i give up lol.
as i said very back and forth
last time we met he said his mom asked about me… made remarks of how i move my hands when i talk and mimicked me.
said hes turning into me when he goes shop.
i dunno … maybe he was just being nice.
he said that when his mom comes in march im invited for dinner
and when he left my car he was just starring at me lol it was so long i looked down for 2 seconds and looked up and down again and then looked. up and examined his entire face idk maybe its just me lol…
Even though the author points out how they are using certain terms, as a man who has experienced abuse from women, and know of many abusive women, it bothers me that the author used “he” for abuser and “she” for victim.
I'm trying to let it go, because regardless this book has a lot of useful information about abusive people and behaviors to be aware of.
It feels invalidating to my experiences and it doesn't feel easy to just let it go.
I don't care to compete on statistics and “who” deals with more or less abuse. I just want to feel seen and cared about too.
Just tell him that you do want to meet his friends but you know you’re just emotionally exhausted and will need to head home early. He can stay and have fun and you can go get the rest you need. Anyone who judges you for that is shitty anyway.
You're still young, you'll find someone who will not be disrespectful of your boundaries and would never make you feel insecure about another woman. He's most likely already sharing his D with D anyway
It will absolutely get better.
Thank you. I am aware that I am racist, as that’s my culture and how I was raised too. I guess I’ll have to accept that there are things I cannot change, even though she can do much better
Oh man…my wife has the best nose I've ever seen in my life. It's the hookiest-witch nose kind….but it drives me wild every time I see it. She once mentioned that she hated her nose…and from then on, whenever I see her walk past (and I see it in all its glory), I stop her to tell her that she has the best and most beautiful nose I've ever seen.
She's also said several times that she wants a boob job, and each time, I tell her that it's 100% her choice, but I think what she has is already perfect. Eventually when I asked about it, she said something along the lines of, “Well, you like them so that's all that matters.”
I also asked her if I should get a penis extension, as I'm less than average length…of course, she said she loves it and wouldn't want me to change a thing. I guess that's how you know your spouse loves you.
when it comes to helping me he will help as he did 3 weeks ago. he came over anf helped and that was only after i saved his ass lol. its been so back and forth…
like he would come over and talk to me. on his bday i didnt wish him (october) and he messaged me he saw my car lol.
then a week later he sent me a picture of. me. first day of classes he wanted to see me.
i asked to talk in september and thats when he dismissed it … as he was busy with client stuff.
i give up lol.
as i said very back and forth
last time we met he said his mom asked about me… made remarks of how i move my hands when i talk and mimicked me.
said hes turning into me when he goes shop.
i dunno … maybe he was just being nice.
he said that when his mom comes in march im invited for dinner
and when he left my car he was just starring at me lol it was so long i looked down for 2 seconds and looked up and down again and then looked. up and examined his entire face idk maybe its just me lol…
so yea
Even though the author points out how they are using certain terms, as a man who has experienced abuse from women, and know of many abusive women, it bothers me that the author used “he” for abuser and “she” for victim.
I'm trying to let it go, because regardless this book has a lot of useful information about abusive people and behaviors to be aware of.
It feels invalidating to my experiences and it doesn't feel easy to just let it go.
I don't care to compete on statistics and “who” deals with more or less abuse. I just want to feel seen and cared about too.
Just tell him that you do want to meet his friends but you know you’re just emotionally exhausted and will need to head home early. He can stay and have fun and you can go get the rest you need. Anyone who judges you for that is shitty anyway.
Did he even know that the other house was nicer or that you wanted to move, though?
Yep, she's going to find out the nude way.
Damn. I hope one shows up soon for you ?
Just something to be aware of: the number 1 reason relationships fail is a disagreement over money.
You're still young, you'll find someone who will not be disrespectful of your boundaries and would never make you feel insecure about another woman. He's most likely already sharing his D with D anyway