This absence will deeply impact your daughter for the rest of her life. The fact that she doesnโt know where her mom is and when she will come back will be devastating for her.
Go see a family law lawyer and get your daughter some additional support.
Every few years something happens and he blames you?
He is just being an asshole and gaslighting you when you find out or stand up for yourself in the relationship. This person may be a good person out of a relationship, but not necessarily a good person to be together with in an intimate & romantic relationship. It doesn't sound like he genuinely cares or respects you. If he did, he would have been honest that straying or exiting the relationship was on his mind and why so something could be done together.
Even reading your post makes me exhausted. Jesus Christ
If you haven't moved out yet, move out.
Then stop spending so much time with them. Get a good group of friends.
This absence will deeply impact your daughter for the rest of her life. The fact that she doesnโt know where her mom is and when she will come back will be devastating for her.
Go see a family law lawyer and get your daughter some additional support.
Every few years something happens and he blames you?
He is just being an asshole and gaslighting you when you find out or stand up for yourself in the relationship. This person may be a good person out of a relationship, but not necessarily a good person to be together with in an intimate & romantic relationship. It doesn't sound like he genuinely cares or respects you. If he did, he would have been honest that straying or exiting the relationship was on his mind and why so something could be done together.