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1. Grossly immature and not in a fun way. This is childish bullshit.

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2. Exactly. When “political views” mean literal life and death and basic human rights they aren’t just opinions- they are ethics and morals.

   And ask yourself, you stay with him. You have children. That child turns out to be a queer trans person what then? Suddenly it’s not just politics is it?

   But even if we set that aside, he has so Leela respect for you that he happily participated in “debates” with you where he rips you apart (dismisses your thoughts, has no desire to actual heart and consider, etc) and when you don’t start as “calm” as him he implies he’s better than you.

   Do you know what my husband and I do when we have a difference of opinion, we jokingly bicker back and forth and if one of us seems to be getting upset we stop. Because when you respect and care about your partner you don’t get off to treating them the way an Internet troll would.

   If I told you the first and most important measure of love was respect, would you say how he treats you in these situations demonstrates that he loves and respects you?

   But all that aside. You don’t need permission to break up with someone. No one – not even the person you are leaving – needs to agree that your reasons for ending the relationship are valid. If you aren’t happy, if this isn’t working, I’d the timing isn’t right, if you can’t see you gelling in the future – you get to leave.

   And I’m sorry, to him your political differences don’t impact the relationship… Because your political opinions aren’t putting him, his future children or the things he cares about in any risk for harm. And more importantly because he doesn’t respect your opinion or take you or it seriously (he totally gives “little girl you and your ideas are so cute” vibes) to him it’s just things you say with no real impact because your opinion has no impact compared to his Rightness.

   But from your perspective his opinions absolutely DO impact the relationship. Your experiences in the relationship aren’t the same he didn’t get to tell you whether your experience is real or valid or not. Only you do.

   And only you get to decide if this is working for you. Is it working? Are you happy? Do you feel loved and respected? Do you feel if you got pregnant and needed an abortion you’d be safe with your partner? If you had a Queer child/sibling would they feel safe in your household?

   Only you get to decide if you want to break up with someone. You can do it because you don’t like the color of his socks, and even if we all think that’s ridiculous and judgemental we can’t stop you from leaving him. Do what’s right for you.

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