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Well getting together when you were 35 and 22 is quite a large age gap, but whatever I am not here to shame you for that.
Studies have shown that in the beginning stages of a new relationship in a heterosexual couple, the woman's testosterone increases and the man's decreases. That means that for her, she's suddenly horny all the time, and matches or even supersedes the man's sex drive. Her sex drive is also higher because the man is making a lot of effort with planning dates, talking to her, showing emotional investment, etc. Once the honeymoon phase has ended (around the 6 month to 2 year period) is when hormones go back to normal, and the man feels complacent in the relationship so he doesn't put the same effort he did at the start. This is when her sex drive goes back to what it was prior to the relationship.
“We need to talk (in person)” without any other context is a loaded term. Doesn't bother me anymore for for decades that was always followed by something negative. So there is anxiety being built up about what and likely the only experience he has are negative ones. My suggestion is to not leave it open ended. If you want a different reaction.
Your boy has an Alcohol Use Disorder (addiction) He absolutely needs professional help and will likely not change long term without it
Binge drinking is often indicative of past traumas. People who use the way your BF does are usually trying to shut down memories, emotions, guilt and shame. It’s a lot to overcome on your own.
I can’t answer your question about whether or not you should leave him, only you can do that. But I strongly urge you to connect with a counsellor or family group. They can help you with communication, setting boundaries and help give you better understanding of alcoholism. Addiction is a family disease and unfortunately affects everyone involved. Groups are a wonderful (judgement free!) way to get support and not feel alone.
Do not set yourself on fire to keep this toxic man warm. He will never be done using and abusing you. Your mother’s wish cannot happen and it is fully and wholly your dad’s fault.
Well getting together when you were 35 and 22 is quite a large age gap, but whatever I am not here to shame you for that.
Studies have shown that in the beginning stages of a new relationship in a heterosexual couple, the woman's testosterone increases and the man's decreases. That means that for her, she's suddenly horny all the time, and matches or even supersedes the man's sex drive. Her sex drive is also higher because the man is making a lot of effort with planning dates, talking to her, showing emotional investment, etc. Once the honeymoon phase has ended (around the 6 month to 2 year period) is when hormones go back to normal, and the man feels complacent in the relationship so he doesn't put the same effort he did at the start. This is when her sex drive goes back to what it was prior to the relationship.
“We need to talk (in person)” without any other context is a loaded term. Doesn't bother me anymore for for decades that was always followed by something negative. So there is anxiety being built up about what and likely the only experience he has are negative ones. My suggestion is to not leave it open ended. If you want a different reaction.
No one wants a 40+ parent let alone TWO 40+ parents.
Addictions counsellor here
Your boy has an Alcohol Use Disorder (addiction) He absolutely needs professional help and will likely not change long term without it
Binge drinking is often indicative of past traumas. People who use the way your BF does are usually trying to shut down memories, emotions, guilt and shame. It’s a lot to overcome on your own.
I can’t answer your question about whether or not you should leave him, only you can do that. But I strongly urge you to connect with a counsellor or family group. They can help you with communication, setting boundaries and help give you better understanding of alcoholism. Addiction is a family disease and unfortunately affects everyone involved. Groups are a wonderful (judgement free!) way to get support and not feel alone.
Sending strength and love your way
He can take out credit to pay for it now. They usually give a promo period where if you pay within that time there’s no interest costs.
As soon as I read why he ended up with her made me cringe, who treats women like that?
Do not set yourself on fire to keep this toxic man warm. He will never be done using and abusing you. Your mother’s wish cannot happen and it is fully and wholly your dad’s fault.