Thankfully there is no abuse. Physical or verbal. I firmly believed I would never get married. Not because of the idea of being with someone for the rest of my life But because of the horrors of divorce. I've seen it and it's a hell I never wanted to experience. Now im on the precipice of that reality.
No, I'm not saying you should have mentioned it. I just find it odd that it didn't come up at all. But you pretty much clarified that by the photo stuff. So yes that makes more sense.
On your relationship length, I was assuming it was 6 month or so. After all this time, there's a component to her reaction that shouldn't be there. Maybe a form of distrust, like you haven't gotten over her or she's the one who got away? Just guessing, obviously.
I do think you should try to get to the bottom of it, but if this fails, I'm with the others. Try to find someone else or even go alone (I did this in Greece once and had a blast). You don't want to waste your money and it's on her to figure out how to recoup her own losses.
Yes I get it, but why would he want to be with me..then tell me i want you and i don't want to give up on us and be with you forever and see a future.. and her on the other hand kept him hanging for over a month even though she was sleeping with the other guy and tell him that she'll come back to him
Thankfully there is no abuse. Physical or verbal. I firmly believed I would never get married. Not because of the idea of being with someone for the rest of my life But because of the horrors of divorce. I've seen it and it's a hell I never wanted to experience. Now im on the precipice of that reality.
Aaah…glad I asked!
No, I'm not saying you should have mentioned it. I just find it odd that it didn't come up at all. But you pretty much clarified that by the photo stuff. So yes that makes more sense.
On your relationship length, I was assuming it was 6 month or so. After all this time, there's a component to her reaction that shouldn't be there. Maybe a form of distrust, like you haven't gotten over her or she's the one who got away? Just guessing, obviously.
I do think you should try to get to the bottom of it, but if this fails, I'm with the others. Try to find someone else or even go alone (I did this in Greece once and had a blast). You don't want to waste your money and it's on her to figure out how to recoup her own losses.
Given that you're still heart broken about the break up, I don't see how being FWB is going to do anything but hurt you even more.
Keep your distance from each other until you guys can move out. Sleeping together isn't going to make moving on any easier.
You are not wrong; I should have provided more information about our relationship.
Because he likes the attention of multiple women. It’s really that simple.
Look at how he treated his gf – flirting with you while dating her. You think he’ll treat you better? He won’t.
PS sometimes I think men paying for a weekly cleaner would improve their sex life considerably ????
Leave him a note listing why you’ve left him. And cut all contact with him.
Yes I get it, but why would he want to be with me..then tell me i want you and i don't want to give up on us and be with you forever and see a future.. and her on the other hand kept him hanging for over a month even though she was sleeping with the other guy and tell him that she'll come back to him