Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
My initial advice was going to be couple's counseling, so I was happy to see that's happening. How long has it been?
Regardless, why do you feel like it's not going anywhere? Is it because neither of you are taking measures to fix things, or is it entirely because your insecurities due to his words have caused you to completely shut down, despite him apologizing and doing everything he can to show you it was a mistake?
Yep, cheaters gonna cheat. Faithful gonna be faithful. I mean I seen a few cheater change after they destroyed a bunch people. They still seem to have that heartless nature when they told me about there story as well as I have my own. A few I could see the remorse they hurt them selves not just the partner . I'm seer/empath/intuitive so I felt it but I still felt the foolishness the lies the deception it took to hide what was done the guilt. Radiating off them like nuclear power plant.
Would you give a second chance to a person who betrayed your trust?
No.
Have you ever done it?
No.
Should it be done under a certain circumstance? Even if this person shows remorse?
Well you definitely shouldn't do it if they don't show remorse. But if they do it's up to you to decide whether or not to give them a second chance. There's no objectively correct answer.
Personally, in your situation I would not advise you to do so. Take it from someone more than twice your age, you're still very young, not even a fully-legal adult yet, and you just met her a month ago (I know it feels like “a lot”, but that's due to your youth and comparative inexperience). You don't need this. Be glad you saw her true side this early, and cut your losses and move on with your life.
Oh sweetie. You are in an abusive relationship. Figure out your exit plan and choose yourself instead of this loser.
Dude. Why is she in a club with you at home? She doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship if she is still wanting to be out partying without you and doing those things for drinks. Like others have said what would she do for a bottle? You know what needs to be done. Send her back to the streets.
My initial advice was going to be couple's counseling, so I was happy to see that's happening. How long has it been?
Regardless, why do you feel like it's not going anywhere? Is it because neither of you are taking measures to fix things, or is it entirely because your insecurities due to his words have caused you to completely shut down, despite him apologizing and doing everything he can to show you it was a mistake?
Yep, cheaters gonna cheat. Faithful gonna be faithful. I mean I seen a few cheater change after they destroyed a bunch people. They still seem to have that heartless nature when they told me about there story as well as I have my own. A few I could see the remorse they hurt them selves not just the partner . I'm seer/empath/intuitive so I felt it but I still felt the foolishness the lies the deception it took to hide what was done the guilt. Radiating off them like nuclear power plant.
Would you give a second chance to a person who betrayed your trust?
No.
Have you ever done it?
No.
Should it be done under a certain circumstance? Even if this person shows remorse?
Well you definitely shouldn't do it if they don't show remorse. But if they do it's up to you to decide whether or not to give them a second chance. There's no objectively correct answer.
Personally, in your situation I would not advise you to do so. Take it from someone more than twice your age, you're still very young, not even a fully-legal adult yet, and you just met her a month ago (I know it feels like “a lot”, but that's due to your youth and comparative inexperience). You don't need this. Be glad you saw her true side this early, and cut your losses and move on with your life.
“The more you ignore me, the more time I have to myself to do as a wish, and the longer you wait for me to reply back.”