This is all too common behavior. It likely won’t get better anytime soon but you should not let it affect your decision. Overtime your son will see through the truth of it all. Stay on your path, take the high road, don’t bad his mother not matter how much you want to. In the end, it will all work out
I have 3 step kids from her and my 16 year old daughter with her and can’t handle not having them especially my daughter. But it’s been almost a year and she can make me feel the worst but refuses to even say she’s sorry or let’s figure out how to fix it
Their marriage has to come first, do you understand that? By confessing your feelings you put a burden on the friendship, if they remain friends with you they are disrespecting the marriage. These are your feelings and you need to woman up and take care of it. Get over him, find someone new
I guess be very firm with this person. I’m not sure what she could do. I just want this person to stop talking to her casually. Like they’re creating this space where there is a possibility of them and getting comfortable pushing boundaries with her. I feel like they need to be put in place . That sounds harsh. It’s very hot not to get a little riled (like I said this isn’t new ) when this happens.
I’m also asking on what I should do to not dwell on it too much while she’s at work. Or be more secure that regardless of the advances she isn’t feeding into them.
If your girlfriend is just leaving school she hasn't yet experienced the “real world” so maybe there's hope for her if she gets a job and a taste of reality. But if she pouts and shuts down any time she doesn't get her way she's probably going to struggle to even stay employed. You might want to consider cutting your losses here before she drags your life down with her.
This is all too common behavior. It likely won’t get better anytime soon but you should not let it affect your decision. Overtime your son will see through the truth of it all. Stay on your path, take the high road, don’t bad his mother not matter how much you want to. In the end, it will all work out
I have 3 step kids from her and my 16 year old daughter with her and can’t handle not having them especially my daughter. But it’s been almost a year and she can make me feel the worst but refuses to even say she’s sorry or let’s figure out how to fix it
Their marriage has to come first, do you understand that? By confessing your feelings you put a burden on the friendship, if they remain friends with you they are disrespecting the marriage. These are your feelings and you need to woman up and take care of it. Get over him, find someone new
I guess be very firm with this person. I’m not sure what she could do. I just want this person to stop talking to her casually. Like they’re creating this space where there is a possibility of them and getting comfortable pushing boundaries with her. I feel like they need to be put in place . That sounds harsh. It’s very hot not to get a little riled (like I said this isn’t new ) when this happens.
I’m also asking on what I should do to not dwell on it too much while she’s at work. Or be more secure that regardless of the advances she isn’t feeding into them.
You didn’t actually read my comment apparently.
If your girlfriend is just leaving school she hasn't yet experienced the “real world” so maybe there's hope for her if she gets a job and a taste of reality. But if she pouts and shuts down any time she doesn't get her way she's probably going to struggle to even stay employed. You might want to consider cutting your losses here before she drags your life down with her.