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  1. In my opinion, I feel like splitting now, while it can still possibly be amicable, would be the best way to go. Because like everyone has said, the clock is ticking. And you waiting for husband to come around could be too late. You don’t want to wake up when he’s “ready” and it just can’t happen because he waited too long.

    I don’t agree that he’s been lying the whole time. But when some men think about having children in relation to how they grew up, it definitely can be too much pressure on them. And also he definitely could have changed his mind along the way about wanting them. Things change. And I hope that you remember to not take it personal or be too hard on yourself about his decision. If that is the case, that is.

  2. Dude, you gotta speak up. You should've called him out at the pool. I get that it might've been uncomfortable for you also. I was in therapy for a while for being severely non-confrontational. I would highly recommend therapy for this – it takes time to deal with anxiety surrounding confrontation, but ultimately, you don't want to be complicit in someone else's sexual harassment of a minor.

    As for what you should do now… I think you should tell your friends and the guy as directly as possible. “The way Frank oggles and rates women and girls makes me uncomfortable. I don't want to be around that anymore.”

    If this is a situation that has happened several times, then I don't think you need to explain it more. If you do, keep it brief, the easiest way to be misunderstood is to over-explain yourself. You can say “when we were at the pool, he commented on how a girl was hot when she appeared to be ~14, and then he proceeded to stare at her. On several other occasions he has rated women's looks unprompted. I don't like it, so I don't want to be around it. I never wanted to start an argument, that is why I simply distanced myself. We don't need to discuss this further. I appreciate you all respecting my wishes. ”

    If they are your friends, they should drop it. If they are the type to debate you on it, then I don't know if those friends worth keeping in the first place. That is why I think it's better to say something because I would rather not continue to be friends with people that don't understand why Frank is creepy. And who knows, maybe Frank realized he fucked up and does some semblance of an apology.

  3. You talk about conditional love as if that were something that has anything to do with this situation. She might still love you but she has her own wishes and desires about how she wants to live! her life. Those conditions are for her first, because she should come first for herself. Not you. If you believe that she isn’t having a naked time with this and she is just being petty you are horribly selfish and wrong.

  4. I think you need to see a counsellor who specialises in Bereaved By Suicide to help you navigate this process.

    People are sometimes selfish and protective when they are grieving. They can't see past their own pain.

    Over time, maybe they will give you a copy of the letter. But you also have to come to terms with the fact they might not.

  5. Don’t listen to these dumb Reddit mfs bruh, there isn’t anything wrong with you or your relationship. Most men experience this at one point in their relationship. Biologically the reasoning for this is because men are hardwired to want to have sex with as many women as possible, so your body is trying to encourage you to seek out different sexual partners. I could go in depth on how to solve this but Alexander Grace has a good video on the topic and can explain it much better than I can in a Reddit comment so yeah. Keep your head up dude.

  6. They are 25, do you pay any attention to the things you are commenting or replying to? Yeah they are legally adults, but maturity is a process you don't have concluded at 25. Who would expect something like this? 99,99% of the posts you are reacting to are from people who are immature despite their age, but suddenly you expect a 25yo couple to behave like perfect adults? Come on.

    If they are adults they should know how to communicate like adults. “Hey that hurts” “okay should I do something different?” “I just don’t enjoy that maybe we do this instead” “okay that sounds great since I online you and don’t want to cause you pain” why is his sad little bruised ego more valid than the physical pain she was experiencing?

    Yeah, the right thing would have been if you had opened with this. Wouldn't you feel in any way concerned if your loved one suddenly told you, after years, that the thing you thought would please her and make her feel good is quite on the opposite? Yeah I guess you would be concerned, because you would start to question, why didn't they tell you earlier, maybe you would feel like a fool for not noticing yourself, some would feel played. Point is, there is reason to try to scale what's more important, pain or the realization of being “lied” to, played etc. Everything has its own value. So why would you discard his concerns? Hers and his are both valid. So don't judge the guy when you affirmed yourself that she could have told him way earlier and then they could have found an solution. She did not, but you are judging him.

  7. Like I really get why you do what you do. The world needs more people like you. Unfortunately, that means you tend to get taken advantage of more often. Keep your eyes open going forward and give to those who show love in return.

    You really need to have your love reciprocated in some way. Some guys don't have time, but they do like really nice things. You don't want to constantly feel under-loved and unappreciated. You're treating him like a king, and he's treating you like a servant. You should be a queen if he's a king, ya know?

    You've invested a great deal of time and effort into him. You carried him through very difficult times. Give him a reasonable chance to change this. If he can't give back some love and attention, you can find someone who will.

    I used to be like you. I just hardened after being everyone's doormat for long enough. It's not worth the aggravation to me anymore. I still do all the extra because I care, but if it's too one-sided, I'm out (unless change or progress is made for the better). It's okay to compromise on some areas if they pick up slack in others. Both people need to put some effort in to a relationship. Some guys do change, but most don't, in my experience.

    This is from a very angry and very upset on your behalf sorta stance, so keep that in mind when you make a decision. I'm bitter on the topic due to how close to home this hits.

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