You need to be extreme to CYA. Be proactive and go to the dean. Look into Title IV, they are legally responsible to protect you from a situation like this.
Bro, are you her husband? Why are you taking it so personally that people want her to leave a cheater? Women aren’t mental hospitals for men. If he wanted to be working on himself, he would have been.
Love can grow over time, familial love, fraternal love, plutonic love, even attraction can grow over time…. If you truly love someone you can be attracted to want to be around them, want to hug them ect
But if you aren't sexually attracted to him, I mean that's biological. And that's going to be a really hard hurdle to jump. Sure you may become sexually attracted to him, but you may not. And I don't think you should force yourself. It's not fair in you, or him.
He may be the best guy in the world, but maybe just not your guy. let him find someone who thinks he's just the sexiest thing in the world. And you go and find an equally great guy who your physically attracted to. keep the friendship.
I know I’m being shitty. I never wanted to be that person but here I am. How do you cut someone off when you have a deep emotional connection with them?
Bingo!
She prob been wanting to leave you and used that as her excuse.
We aren’t married btw, just parents who are boyfriend and girlfriend, but that is still not an excuse to cheat obviously.
I will talk about couples therapy to her so she can trust me again.
You need to be extreme to CYA. Be proactive and go to the dean. Look into Title IV, they are legally responsible to protect you from a situation like this.
I hear you. Meanwhile, would my leaving not be hurtful to her, as she indicated? Not sure how to take a call there.
Bro, are you her husband? Why are you taking it so personally that people want her to leave a cheater? Women aren’t mental hospitals for men. If he wanted to be working on himself, he would have been.
Do you never wanna go to the pool or the beach? Cuz there will be half hot people there too.
Love can grow over time, familial love, fraternal love, plutonic love, even attraction can grow over time…. If you truly love someone you can be attracted to want to be around them, want to hug them ect
But if you aren't sexually attracted to him, I mean that's biological. And that's going to be a really hard hurdle to jump. Sure you may become sexually attracted to him, but you may not. And I don't think you should force yourself. It's not fair in you, or him.
He may be the best guy in the world, but maybe just not your guy. let him find someone who thinks he's just the sexiest thing in the world. And you go and find an equally great guy who your physically attracted to. keep the friendship.
I know I’m being shitty. I never wanted to be that person but here I am. How do you cut someone off when you have a deep emotional connection with them?