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If she starts to insults my daughter and verbally disparage her. She will see consequences, we won’t have kids. Also I will move out if no progress is made
No ring no bring is a fairly common screening criteria, though. Key ring, engagement ring, or wedding ring.
My husband waited about 5 months before he told his family about me. Meanwhile, my parents knew about him from the first date!
How long have you been together?
So I feel like there are a lot of people just telling you to pick up and leave and that it doesn’t get better, which may be the case but I think there’s more to it than that. It sounds to me that he has an unhealthy attachment style. When you got into an argument about things being unfair, he brought up divorce, now this could be because he really wants divorce or it could be because of his own fear of being left. I have no clue which it is but if you love this person and want to be with them, you’re doing the right thing by suggesting counseling. If you love him, you can still be hurt by his statements, acknowledge his hurting you but also accept that it is not about you but his own mental illness trying to preserve himself (provided that’s the situation). Take a beat, breathe, maybe see a therapist yourself and take care of yourself.
Get angry.
While understanding this is difficult for you, stick with the therapy. Take the time you need to reflect and be able to articulate what’s going on with you and use that to engage in therapy as well as you possibly can.
Things won’t just magically switch on again and be perfect, you have to work at it and that will take space for both you and your wife to decompress, process and see what happens.
Maybe you’re not ready to resume intimacy, maybe that’s how your wife felt on the day but she’s since had a chance to think things through more, or maybe the relationship has run its course. But how would anyone here (as some random person responding to a few short paragraphs) be in a position to offer better perspective than a therapist.
i guess the way i saw it was, if we broke up then it’s not cheating right ? if we were still together then maybe.
Yeah. The first one was believable, the second one started making my BS radar ping, and this one is too over the top. If the OP hadn't gotten greedy and wanted a big, exciting reveal, and had instead left it at “yeah he hit on her a couple times and got shot down”, it would have been much easier to believe. But no, they had to make him a psycho stalker creep, breaking into multiple houses, and somehow expertly dodging all the security cameras the lady has.
What can I do about it?
After that second comment about keeping her in a box I would be worried. She's either going to end up cheating or she'll leave you to get out of that box.
I understand. Maybe he neglected this area, but that’s so weird. Maybe he’s so used to this smell, he doesn’t notice. But I know he had previous relationships, so there’s no way his exes didn’t smell it too. they probably didn’t tell him ?
You are, you just tried to rephrase it as “subtly seduce” (him into doing something he has repeatedly said he doesn't want to do)
Curious…why didn’t you date your fwb before?
You want him to miss this???
If you’re aromatic, then why did you agree to a relationship with her? What does flirting even mean to you? Is it a sexual thing, or is there a chance that you are actually romantic, just less so than her? Either way, I wouldn’t waste your time trying to over-interpret her weird rose gift.
The best way to live! life is by believing people. If someone says that they’re fine sarcastically, believe them. Don’t let it bother you. Force them to communicate and hold themselves accountable for how they actually feel.
She broke up with you, so take her at her word and think nothing of the rose. If she wants a relationship again, then she needs to say so. You don’t have to play this dumb game with her.
Look there is nothing wrong with a check in
If it's all good she will probably just thank you
I hate to say it, but talking isn’t gonna change anything. Because if she’s cheating on you, she’s not gonna tell you and she’ll turn it around on you and make you the bad guy. She’s already done that right? That’s called Davo. You just want to be with a woman who’s not gonna do stuff like this to begin with. Don’t dance like a monkey, or ask her please don’t go and have three hour dinner dates one on one with another guy at a hotel. Find a girl that you don’t have to tell her how to behave. While she’s out with this guy all different nights of the week you’re sitting at home like a good little boy, right?
That's the only reason I can really think of. He brought up the fact that he's worried about things not working out for him.
Then why do you hurt him?
Your comment is spot on. One of my favorite quotes is, “Red flags don’t seem like red flags when they feel like home.” We repeat what we don’t fix, and we keep falling for the abuse that we’re used to.
Either you tell her how you feel, risk the awkwardness of her not feeling the same way and destroying the relationship beyond repair.
Or you say nothing and end the friendship.
If you keep going on like this eventually it’s gonna come out and I don’t think it’s gonna go well. Plus it’s really not fair on her boyfriend. You felt the betrayal of your ex cheating on you. Imagine instead of cheating, your ex distanced herself from the guy she cheated with and worked better in herself. Your relationship might have still ended but not as traumatic as the cheating.
It sounds like he “needs” alcohol to function. Or rather, his body and mind tell him that this is the case – hence the drinking before doing seemingly normal tasks such as dates.
As others have said, it sounds like he is an addict. The first sign is the fact that he is denying his drinking even being a problem – which addicts do when they get presented with their addiction being a problem.
This will be a long and naked road to go down, should you choose to help him with this addiction. I think he needs to realise that he needs help on his own, you can't solve his addiction for him.
Whether or not you decide to go on that journey with him is another question. It may take him months or years to realise the issue that he has, and then a lot of time to resolve it. So, you will need to decide for yourself if he and the relationship are worth that investment.