holy fuck, i can see your POV, she’s extremely underweight for her height, that’s definitely not healthy in any way. please talk to her though, she will never know unless you talk to her.
you’re not bashing, judging or controlling her at all, but you want her to be healthy, and frankly— she isn’t.
I think the drunk driving was on the way TO the restaurant – it's at the beginning of the story which is basically chronological and she later says he refused to give her a ride home. Much easier to miss his drunken state if she was picked up and I'm assuming he sobered up over after eating and spending time at the restaurant.
Given the ages everyone is I'm surprised as their behaviour seems more like that of teenagers than folks nearly in their 30's, but I guess we've all come to learn age doesn't mean a lot at times.
Personally I'd have ditched hum as a bf the instant you got on the plane as if you're being victim shamed and he's not making any effort to stand up for you, much less blaming you for being the one to make a bad impression? Yeah.
You'd have thought if they were decent people they'd have, even with a couple of drinks in them, have had the decency to process you're clearly not enjoying their fun and rapidly apologise and leave you in peace.
We”re with you 100% to lose him and find someone else or just enjoy being single for a while aa damn, that is some childish and stupid behaviour from all of them.
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holy fuck, i can see your POV, she’s extremely underweight for her height, that’s definitely not healthy in any way. please talk to her though, she will never know unless you talk to her.
you’re not bashing, judging or controlling her at all, but you want her to be healthy, and frankly— she isn’t.
I think the drunk driving was on the way TO the restaurant – it's at the beginning of the story which is basically chronological and she later says he refused to give her a ride home. Much easier to miss his drunken state if she was picked up and I'm assuming he sobered up over after eating and spending time at the restaurant.
Given the ages everyone is I'm surprised as their behaviour seems more like that of teenagers than folks nearly in their 30's, but I guess we've all come to learn age doesn't mean a lot at times.
Personally I'd have ditched hum as a bf the instant you got on the plane as if you're being victim shamed and he's not making any effort to stand up for you, much less blaming you for being the one to make a bad impression? Yeah.
You'd have thought if they were decent people they'd have, even with a couple of drinks in them, have had the decency to process you're clearly not enjoying their fun and rapidly apologise and leave you in peace.
We”re with you 100% to lose him and find someone else or just enjoy being single for a while aa damn, that is some childish and stupid behaviour from all of them.