Move back. Do whatever it takes to get away for good. He knows you depend on him. I wish all these smart Reddit folks were around before I WASTED 12 years on someone like this. Counseling blah blah. Find someone kind and normal even if you have to move 3000 miles away and sleep on a girlfriends couch! Id help a friend in your situation without hesitation.
Sorry you are going through this tough time. I don't understand her motivation to take a break from you. You are the person she can grow with and lean on if she is struggling with things outside your relationship. I've only really heard of people taking a break when their relationship what is the problem. Does that make sense? Is it possible she feels ambivalent about dating you because of her family beliefs? Or dating anyone. I need to ask you how satisfying this relationship is for you? You're really young and deserve to have fun with your partner and be appreciated. Explore different kinds of people and how they match up with you. You are very committed to this woman. And I'm not sure that's a great thing.
Move back. Do whatever it takes to get away for good. He knows you depend on him. I wish all these smart Reddit folks were around before I WASTED 12 years on someone like this. Counseling blah blah. Find someone kind and normal even if you have to move 3000 miles away and sleep on a girlfriends couch! Id help a friend in your situation without hesitation.
Sorry you are going through this tough time. I don't understand her motivation to take a break from you. You are the person she can grow with and lean on if she is struggling with things outside your relationship. I've only really heard of people taking a break when their relationship what is the problem. Does that make sense? Is it possible she feels ambivalent about dating you because of her family beliefs? Or dating anyone. I need to ask you how satisfying this relationship is for you? You're really young and deserve to have fun with your partner and be appreciated. Explore different kinds of people and how they match up with you. You are very committed to this woman. And I'm not sure that's a great thing.
Maybe his wife knows and doesnโt care because she is cheating on him. Just a thought.