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You have allowed your wife to drive a wedge between you and your child already.
You haven't gotten your daughter gifts or even a card in 2 years!! Are you kidding in what way is that at all acceptable.
This woman is jealous of a child, she treats her badly, speaks of her badly and asks you to pull back in your relationship with her and you've done fuck all about it.
Yes you should divorce her, you should have 2 years ago when she started this, your daughter is 12 she's old enough to know she hasn't been your priority and that your wife resents her. It's time to put her first before you destroy whatever relationship you have left.
If thats true then don't have another. It would make you a bad father to have a child when you don't want one and do not have space/time for them. It is okay that you are fulfilled with your current children. It's not okay that you were 100% clear with your wife and now she gave you an ultimatum. It's not okay to give in to her demand when this isn't just about her or you, this is also about a hypothetical future person who will be as affected by the choice you make right now with your wife. No person wants to be born under these circumstances. I'm not saying this is an easy choice to make, losing your wife will be naked, but it is better than dragging a whole new person into existence like this. What if you regret it? What if you try your best to love that child but you always resent it? What then? You have to think beyond yourself and your wife. She can have a child, just not with you.
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You have allowed your wife to drive a wedge between you and your child already.
You haven't gotten your daughter gifts or even a card in 2 years!! Are you kidding in what way is that at all acceptable.
This woman is jealous of a child, she treats her badly, speaks of her badly and asks you to pull back in your relationship with her and you've done fuck all about it.
Yes you should divorce her, you should have 2 years ago when she started this, your daughter is 12 she's old enough to know she hasn't been your priority and that your wife resents her. It's time to put her first before you destroy whatever relationship you have left.
They are both disgusting man who are predators. Dump your bf, go home to your family and straighten out your life and enjoy your young years.
Thatโs definitely grounds for breaking up. Iโm sorry OP. Not a great way to spend New Years but at least you can start the new year red flag free?
If thats true then don't have another. It would make you a bad father to have a child when you don't want one and do not have space/time for them. It is okay that you are fulfilled with your current children. It's not okay that you were 100% clear with your wife and now she gave you an ultimatum. It's not okay to give in to her demand when this isn't just about her or you, this is also about a hypothetical future person who will be as affected by the choice you make right now with your wife. No person wants to be born under these circumstances. I'm not saying this is an easy choice to make, losing your wife will be naked, but it is better than dragging a whole new person into existence like this. What if you regret it? What if you try your best to love that child but you always resent it? What then? You have to think beyond yourself and your wife. She can have a child, just not with you.
This a is a perfect example of Predators changing their hunting tactics only when they have too.
i will let it go , guess it was never going to work
He is way way more emotional invested with you.
He chose you