I'm sorry but getting engaged is not the answer to this issue.
She is an adult, and she can get other medical options. She has to look into them and choose what she can.
If she is on her moms insurance then why can't she see a therapist? Her moms beliefs have nothing to do with it. She can as a adult make her own appointment, and insurance pays for it. So to me that excuse makes no sense.
I honestly wouldn't get engaged until you see if things like therapy are going to work out, because if you get engaged and she doesn't get help with her issues, because if things don't change, and you don't get the intimacy you obviously are needing then things are not going to work out for you in the long run.
Sounds like he needs to work through some things in therapy if he's intentionally alienating his own partner. He's literally creating an island around him and your daughter and keeping you outside. It's like he's emotionally preparing himself and her for your departure same as how your daughter's bio mom left.
I don't think he's “over” that trauma and may never be. But you can decide if that's something you have the capacity to work with.
I wish it were that simple but I care about her and I donβt want to make her homeless but the resentment has been settling in hot.
I'm sorry but getting engaged is not the answer to this issue.
She is an adult, and she can get other medical options. She has to look into them and choose what she can.
If she is on her moms insurance then why can't she see a therapist? Her moms beliefs have nothing to do with it. She can as a adult make her own appointment, and insurance pays for it. So to me that excuse makes no sense.
I honestly wouldn't get engaged until you see if things like therapy are going to work out, because if you get engaged and she doesn't get help with her issues, because if things don't change, and you don't get the intimacy you obviously are needing then things are not going to work out for you in the long run.
Alcohol makes people say things they don't mean
Sounds like he needs to work through some things in therapy if he's intentionally alienating his own partner. He's literally creating an island around him and your daughter and keeping you outside. It's like he's emotionally preparing himself and her for your departure same as how your daughter's bio mom left.
I don't think he's “over” that trauma and may never be. But you can decide if that's something you have the capacity to work with.
Lol, and how she thinks she's “ruining him.”
So pathetic…