Well the last time I went she blanked me harrd. Turned around wherever she saw me etc Avoided coming near or serving me, yet served everyone else even tho that's not her job!
And I left the restaurant, paying back all the discounts to her dad with my mates and dashing out.
Her dad ran after me outside like wtf is going on, you're our regular and we like you…
You’ve tried confronting him about the filthy habits and it hasn’t worked. Make a plan. Find another place to on-line. Make it official and then confront him with a move-out date.
Out of respect, give him a good amount of notice to replace you (at least 1 month). And if you’re feeling really generous, you can even help him find a new roommate.
But he felt bad, told me it made him realise he wanted to be official, and ended up purchasing a pair of earrings for me on the boat.
Or he wanted to be “single” during the cruise to see what would happen there.
But ever since he’s been upset I don’t wear them all the time and refuses to buy me jewellery ever again.
He needs to get over himself. He decided to sleep with someone else, if he still feels guilty, that's his own problem.
I brought up how it made me feel, and he got really upset saying he can’t ever trust buying me jewellery ever again because of the first time. Over the years I’ve definitely shown him types of that I would like to receive, but it makes no difference.
Why exactly do you continue wasting time with this manipulative jerk?
Personally don’t think there is a exact timeframe. It’s all about how you feel at the moment. If you feel like you can confidently say you love him too and you actually do (in a romantic level) then say it.
I do wanna say that it would be too soon if you both actually met and started dating 2 weeks now, but since you both have know each other for a while its different. I will say as well that maybe its time to have the talk? How do you feel about him? What are you 2 exactly?
troll. there was a post about this from the perspective of the SIL a few days ago
You are so fucking lame and gross and a loser and desperate and I would be ashamed to have you as a family member
Well the last time I went she blanked me harrd. Turned around wherever she saw me etc Avoided coming near or serving me, yet served everyone else even tho that's not her job!
And I left the restaurant, paying back all the discounts to her dad with my mates and dashing out.
Her dad ran after me outside like wtf is going on, you're our regular and we like you…
Just weird. All of it
You’ve tried confronting him about the filthy habits and it hasn’t worked. Make a plan. Find another place to on-line. Make it official and then confront him with a move-out date.
Out of respect, give him a good amount of notice to replace you (at least 1 month). And if you’re feeling really generous, you can even help him find a new roommate.
Have you met this person?
But he felt bad, told me it made him realise he wanted to be official, and ended up purchasing a pair of earrings for me on the boat.
Or he wanted to be “single” during the cruise to see what would happen there.
But ever since he’s been upset I don’t wear them all the time and refuses to buy me jewellery ever again.
He needs to get over himself. He decided to sleep with someone else, if he still feels guilty, that's his own problem.
I brought up how it made me feel, and he got really upset saying he can’t ever trust buying me jewellery ever again because of the first time. Over the years I’ve definitely shown him types of that I would like to receive, but it makes no difference.
Why exactly do you continue wasting time with this manipulative jerk?
Personally don’t think there is a exact timeframe. It’s all about how you feel at the moment. If you feel like you can confidently say you love him too and you actually do (in a romantic level) then say it.
I do wanna say that it would be too soon if you both actually met and started dating 2 weeks now, but since you both have know each other for a while its different. I will say as well that maybe its time to have the talk? How do you feel about him? What are you 2 exactly?
A child does not have to pick between their parents. Period.
It's wrong for her to make you choose like this.
I am a parent, and there are lots of “unfair” things that we need to deal with, lots of shit we need to eat. This is one of them.
Leave.
He has no business telling you what you can or cannot buy or wear. And there’s probably a lot more wrong with your relationship.
Don’t you have a job? Friends? Hobbies?
Let me start off by saying that I'm very sorry this happened. Please in the future get your partners tested before sex because condoms aren't 100%.
My spouses friend has herpes and is in a loving marriage and has a healthy child. So the world isn't over. But you do need to leave this man.
I hope you write for a living. This is perfectly put. If I believed in funding Reddit I’d award you.
I am amazed he managed to find toxic therapists as well. No one is breaking this toxicity lol
Do not put her name on the mortgage
Yes, we met up 4 times in total!