If it’s a deal breaker then break it off soon. No need to keep things stringing along. It’s sad she had to have so much student debt and that the relationship for you seems impossible because of that. Don’t wait around.
This stinks. Discussing this before leaving will undoubtedly cause an argument which makes cheating while you’re gone more likely. Maybe you could remind him how much you care for him and appreciate him before you leave.
How old are you? How many SO’s have you had?
If it’s a deal breaker then break it off soon. No need to keep things stringing along. It’s sad she had to have so much student debt and that the relationship for you seems impossible because of that. Don’t wait around.
Ask him why he thinks it is ok to talk about his Mom like that. I would be interested in hearing his answer.
This stinks. Discussing this before leaving will undoubtedly cause an argument which makes cheating while you’re gone more likely. Maybe you could remind him how much you care for him and appreciate him before you leave.