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And while you should be able to talk about your past with your SO it is never a good idea to get into specifics. So when you find someone who will treat you with the kindness, love and respect that you deserve, maybe hold back on the specific details of your past, a general outline is enough unless you both agree to a full frank exchange of all the details.
I get your point. But I do genuinely love this woman. That's not me bullshitting. I genuinely love and care for her. And I want what is best for her inasmuch as I want what is best for me.
Perhaps that didn't come across as I intended in my op, but that's the truth.
We've simply reached a point in our relationship where we either take the next step together, or we need to end things so that we can both go on and find the person we eventually take that next step with.
And that's a really daunting decision to make, and I'm terrified of making the wrong choice.
No, high level of anxiety of how he will annoy me into submission with critical comments and belittling statements and accusations? Yeah
How do you keep a job if you’re there 6 mos at a time?
So, everything was fine for the first few years, and then she started acting distant. Your reaction to her acting distant was to sit her down and discuss YOUR feelings. Did you ever ask her how SHE was feeling? Ask what was happening with her that was causing these changes? If everything was so great in the beginning, you should have become concerned when your partner starts pushing you away, not resentful. Honestly, break up with her for both of your sakes.
I don't know what OP should do about it, but I agree with you that he's trying to make her the problem even though he's the problem. When I was younger and less gentle in my approach to… everything… I had a conversation that went basically like this with somebody I was dating.
Them: Don't say that anymore.
Me: Why?
Them: I hate how I look, and it just feels insulting when you say I'm very hot… as though you could ever really think that.
Me: Okay, that's a problem. You don't get to accuse me of lying without a shred of evidence aside from your insecurity.
Them: …what?
Me: You just accused me of lying since you refuse to believe we don't share the same taste in physical attractiveness.
Them: No, that's not what – I just meant that I'm so ugly, and –
Me: So your opinion is objective, is it? You're the only person on earth who can accurately assess how good somebody looks?
Them: No! I just –
Me: I'm more objective than you anyway! Nobody is objective about their own looks. Maybe you should trust my judgment. You're obviously clueless about how attractive you are, so maybe you shouldn't try to act like you're well-informed on the topic.
Them: I'M UGLY!
Me: Stop accusing me of having bad taste! It's none of your business what I like and what I don't, so stop telling me what I like!
Etc.
Strangely, despite how rude and insensitive I was, they actually decided to go to therapy after that conversation. It's like it knocked some sense into them.
Thanks for being honest. I’ve told him how I think it’s a form of sexual assault and he made me think I was crazy for assuming that because “he would never hurt me”