I know many will disagree, but she comes off as extremely controlling and seems to believe everything has to be on her terms. This isn't the man that cheated on you.
I believe you shouldn't be in a serious relationship just yet. It appears that you believe you can control the situation to the point that he won't cheat.
I'm thinking the clock is about to hit zero on this relationship.
It sucks and you shouldn’t have to do this, but you have to push for investigation on this. It’s not normal to have such bad periods you’re missing work/other activities and they absolutely need to investigate so they can find a solution. If one doctor doesn’t listen then you have to find a second opinion, and a third, etc. try to find a female doctor, it’s not a guarantee, but they’ll generally understand a little better. Also consider that this can unfortunately take a while and birth control may be a solution to stop you being in so much pain in the interim at least.
You’re likely going to break up for one reason or another eventually because most relationships between people your age don’t last (for good reasons).
Absolutely not. You could give the presents to your parents, perhaps for when the kids are at their house? But she is the one in the wrong.
I would be besides myself too OP. There should be some restitution for your old man. Having your cake and eating it too shouldn’t go unchecked.
I know many will disagree, but she comes off as extremely controlling and seems to believe everything has to be on her terms. This isn't the man that cheated on you.
I believe you shouldn't be in a serious relationship just yet. It appears that you believe you can control the situation to the point that he won't cheat.
I'm thinking the clock is about to hit zero on this relationship.
It sucks and you shouldn’t have to do this, but you have to push for investigation on this. It’s not normal to have such bad periods you’re missing work/other activities and they absolutely need to investigate so they can find a solution. If one doctor doesn’t listen then you have to find a second opinion, and a third, etc. try to find a female doctor, it’s not a guarantee, but they’ll generally understand a little better. Also consider that this can unfortunately take a while and birth control may be a solution to stop you being in so much pain in the interim at least.
You’re likely going to break up for one reason or another eventually because most relationships between people your age don’t last (for good reasons).