Having a crush here and there isn’t a problem, as long as you recognize it for what it is – and don’t act on it. I’d even call it normal. Don’t overthink it, you’re only human.
I guess the bigger questions are… are you happy? Has anything changed as a result of couples therapy? Do your long-term goals align (lifestyle, children, career and financials?) What needs/desires of yours aren’t being fulfilled right now? Do you still find him attractive?
I feel like you already made a decision and are just sanity checking yourself in Reddit. And that’s fine.
As far as your shared history and stuff, it’s less important the future. If the relationship can no longer give you what you need after putting in a good faith effort at trying, then it sound like it’s holding you back.
Yes. And I married him. Sex slowly declined to the point that we now haven’t had sex in six months. I absolutely do not recommend staying with someone whose sex drive does not match your own.
Yeah. Arguing kinda kills the mood for most people, surely?
Having a crush here and there isn’t a problem, as long as you recognize it for what it is – and don’t act on it. I’d even call it normal. Don’t overthink it, you’re only human.
I guess the bigger questions are… are you happy? Has anything changed as a result of couples therapy? Do your long-term goals align (lifestyle, children, career and financials?) What needs/desires of yours aren’t being fulfilled right now? Do you still find him attractive?
I feel like you already made a decision and are just sanity checking yourself in Reddit. And that’s fine.
As far as your shared history and stuff, it’s less important the future. If the relationship can no longer give you what you need after putting in a good faith effort at trying, then it sound like it’s holding you back.
Tickling isn’t fun.
Yes. And I married him. Sex slowly declined to the point that we now haven’t had sex in six months. I absolutely do not recommend staying with someone whose sex drive does not match your own.