I agree with this. He is a victim in this too: his lovable harmless companion of many years just went psychotic on him and likely forfeited it’s right to online. This is being framed as his fault by proxy, but he didn’t do anything to provoke the dog.
There is 0% chance that your relationship will continue after the 30 day break where you sleep with others.
Either you or him will find someone who they catch feelings for, or you or him will resent the other when you get back because of what you did during the break, causing the new relationship to implode.
So do the mature thing and end the relationship for good.
And stop spouting the BS about loving him, if you did you wouldn’t be wanting to fuck other people, because he would be enough for you.
Oh and in case you ignore everything else, remember that when you tell him about your idea, he is going to be angry, he is going to think (and it’s probably the truth) that you are already cheating on him in some way, and he is likely never going to want to see you or hear from you again.
This is going to sound rough…. Parents die, it’s the way of life. We have to accept this. Your girlfriend supported you. She was kind to you. She loves you. Unfortunately after a week she had to deal with her own parental figure, also an important person…
I can’t see it as someone who left you and ditched you. You need to tell yourself you have a very loving partner.
Leave bro alone I understand what you’re telling yourself but you’re being insanely selfish.
Tell yourself whatever but you were not poly And you just did that shit to sleep with that guy because you were bored of stability. No harm no foul but thats what you did and now you gotta lay in it.
Bc
I agree with this. He is a victim in this too: his lovable harmless companion of many years just went psychotic on him and likely forfeited it’s right to online. This is being framed as his fault by proxy, but he didn’t do anything to provoke the dog.
Probably never had to have a real conversation about it.
I would just try to work at opening him up. Rather than specifics, just go into the importance of being able to talk about it.
Should be basic stuff he can wrap his head around.
If you want to break up, just do it.
There is 0% chance that your relationship will continue after the 30 day break where you sleep with others.
Either you or him will find someone who they catch feelings for, or you or him will resent the other when you get back because of what you did during the break, causing the new relationship to implode.
So do the mature thing and end the relationship for good.
And stop spouting the BS about loving him, if you did you wouldn’t be wanting to fuck other people, because he would be enough for you.
Oh and in case you ignore everything else, remember that when you tell him about your idea, he is going to be angry, he is going to think (and it’s probably the truth) that you are already cheating on him in some way, and he is likely never going to want to see you or hear from you again.
We just broke up for good.
No, you’re being needy here.
This is going to sound rough…. Parents die, it’s the way of life. We have to accept this. Your girlfriend supported you. She was kind to you. She loves you. Unfortunately after a week she had to deal with her own parental figure, also an important person…
I can’t see it as someone who left you and ditched you. You need to tell yourself you have a very loving partner.
Leave bro alone I understand what you’re telling yourself but you’re being insanely selfish.
Tell yourself whatever but you were not poly And you just did that shit to sleep with that guy because you were bored of stability. No harm no foul but thats what you did and now you gotta lay in it.
Let bro find someone who actually likes him.