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Addiction is a funny thing. Keep communicating and draw a very hot line in the sand. You don't have to break up with her for considering it, it's a natural feeling to want to, but DOING it after all he did isn't ok and she needs to know it isn't supported
That makes sense, BUT shes only entitled to what you contributed during the marriage. If you contributed a lot prior to, that is considered separate property. So the question is are you saving enough to cover you both? Will it also be enough for her to be able to retire? She has no income currently, shes not competitive in the job market if shes been away from working so many years. She doesn’t earn any sick or vacation time, she doesn’t have the same benefits you do. Its know that being a SAHM puts women at financial risk/disadvantage. She is basically an unpaid caregiver. Just something to consider. You really should be going after your ex wife for child support and contributing that to your dtrs college fund, that is the fair thing to do.
Cancel the wedding. This is not going to improve. Your BIL will be doing what he always does and your SO will be following him along like a lost puppy. You aren't marrying your SO. You are marrying your BIL's pet.
Save yourself a lot of heartache and cut your losses now. Take the vacation to have fun without your ex. Stating is enabling both of their behaviors and giving your SO absolutely no repercussions. You would telling him that it is okay to do this to you. You are teaching him that you will suck it up. Don't. Set yourself free and find someone that makes you his first priority. You deserve no less.
Hey babe, he’s emotionally abusive. “Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay” by Mira Kirahenbaurn was a life saver for me.
Please read it and maybe look into therapy for yourself. I hope you realize you deserve to be treated so much better than this. Leaving was the hardest decision for me to make too, but once I left it was the most amazing, freeing feeling ever.
Addiction is a funny thing. Keep communicating and draw a very hot line in the sand. You don't have to break up with her for considering it, it's a natural feeling to want to, but DOING it after all he did isn't ok and she needs to know it isn't supported
That makes sense, BUT shes only entitled to what you contributed during the marriage. If you contributed a lot prior to, that is considered separate property. So the question is are you saving enough to cover you both? Will it also be enough for her to be able to retire? She has no income currently, shes not competitive in the job market if shes been away from working so many years. She doesn’t earn any sick or vacation time, she doesn’t have the same benefits you do. Its know that being a SAHM puts women at financial risk/disadvantage. She is basically an unpaid caregiver. Just something to consider. You really should be going after your ex wife for child support and contributing that to your dtrs college fund, that is the fair thing to do.
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Cancel the wedding. This is not going to improve. Your BIL will be doing what he always does and your SO will be following him along like a lost puppy. You aren't marrying your SO. You are marrying your BIL's pet.
Save yourself a lot of heartache and cut your losses now. Take the vacation to have fun without your ex. Stating is enabling both of their behaviors and giving your SO absolutely no repercussions. You would telling him that it is okay to do this to you. You are teaching him that you will suck it up. Don't. Set yourself free and find someone that makes you his first priority. You deserve no less.
From my experience in school, college friendships are made (and unmade) so so so quickly
I really don’t see any huge red flags, and to say it’s “sketch AF” seems so overboard
Hey babe, he’s emotionally abusive. “Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay” by Mira Kirahenbaurn was a life saver for me.
Please read it and maybe look into therapy for yourself. I hope you realize you deserve to be treated so much better than this. Leaving was the hardest decision for me to make too, but once I left it was the most amazing, freeing feeling ever.