I completely understand but choosing to breakip with me over moving in with me doesnt feel like she really loved me as much as she sais. I constantly broke my boundaries just to not lose her and she never does, she never does things she isnt comfy doing just to not loose me , she never sacrifices anything for the sake of us being together and i was the only one doing that through our relationship. I asked her if we cans ee eachother three times a week she disagreed so we only see eachother when she wants to
It really is scare the amount of deceitful maladjusted fucks dragging their partners through these hell relationships. It's scary that these people are all my age as well.
Leave him. I know you care about him, but this isn’t healthy. You’ve had body image issues in the past and I assume he knows since you’re high school sweethearts. Instead of building you up and supporting you in allowing you to find joy in yourself, he’d rather lean into his insecurities and tell you to cover up and sacrifice something you love so he can soothe is insecurities.
Word of advice, those insecurities will never go away. Not unless he goes and gets himself help. This conflict seems small. Yes, it might be just a dress. But the dress is a symbol of your self-expression and something makes you feel good about yourself.
It will not stop at just clothes. If you give in, it’ll turn into him asking and expecting more because you already sacrificed something for him once, so why won’t you do just one more thing for him?
Listen to your friends. Listen to the women here telling you their own experiences. Stop and think about what it means when so many strangers as well as people you care about are telling you he’s no good. I’ve read your comments. Sure he says stuff that makes you feel in the wrong but why are you letting yourself be swayed by him? Everything he tells you is stuff he says to convince you into doing what he wants. Stand up for yourself and what you love. Life is so short and it’s not worth being wasting your time on an insecure boy.
I mean if she's going to throw three years down the drain I think you need a better explanation than that.
And for the record this is not her « being in love », this is her wanting YOUR man because she is the golden child
Yea unfortunately
I completely understand but choosing to breakip with me over moving in with me doesnt feel like she really loved me as much as she sais. I constantly broke my boundaries just to not lose her and she never does, she never does things she isnt comfy doing just to not loose me , she never sacrifices anything for the sake of us being together and i was the only one doing that through our relationship. I asked her if we cans ee eachother three times a week she disagreed so we only see eachother when she wants to
? What daft buggers.
“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes”
It really is scare the amount of deceitful maladjusted fucks dragging their partners through these hell relationships. It's scary that these people are all my age as well.
Leave him. I know you care about him, but this isn’t healthy. You’ve had body image issues in the past and I assume he knows since you’re high school sweethearts. Instead of building you up and supporting you in allowing you to find joy in yourself, he’d rather lean into his insecurities and tell you to cover up and sacrifice something you love so he can soothe is insecurities.
Word of advice, those insecurities will never go away. Not unless he goes and gets himself help. This conflict seems small. Yes, it might be just a dress. But the dress is a symbol of your self-expression and something makes you feel good about yourself.
It will not stop at just clothes. If you give in, it’ll turn into him asking and expecting more because you already sacrificed something for him once, so why won’t you do just one more thing for him?
Listen to your friends. Listen to the women here telling you their own experiences. Stop and think about what it means when so many strangers as well as people you care about are telling you he’s no good. I’ve read your comments. Sure he says stuff that makes you feel in the wrong but why are you letting yourself be swayed by him? Everything he tells you is stuff he says to convince you into doing what he wants. Stand up for yourself and what you love. Life is so short and it’s not worth being wasting your time on an insecure boy.