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1. i hope you dont take this the wrong way, but i would recommend doing some reading on both attachment theory and narcissism. i think you may learn a bit about your own tendencies. id also consider seeking out a therapist to discuss this with, because you described behaviors that are typical symptoms of some more deeply rooted issues.

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2. Using it as an emotional hold on you. She will retract in and say the opposite again soon to fuck with your head

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3. You might want to talk to your attorney about the stipulation of your husband seeing a psychiatrist before settling custody of your children. You have his posts, which insinuate that, at the least, he has severe OCD, presenting with long-term fixated obsession with an uninvolved individual. The emotional upheaval a divorce brings with it could negatively affect his behavior, so have your lawyer petition the court for an evaluation from a psychiatrist regarding his ability to parent without his seeking treatment first.

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4. Right but why is it a problem now, after being together for 10 years? What changed?

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5. There's a difference between not being into dudes and getting furious when she brings up the same fantasies that he regularly subjects her too.

   It's giving more “we can have threesomes but only with another girl”, or “open relationship but she can only sleep with girls and not guys “vibes

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   I don’t even know how to begin.

   For starters I guess I need to say I myself I’m bisexual. I’m attracted to women and men and maybe in between too. I’m monogamous and I’ve been married for almost ten years. We have a 5 year old child together.

   Edit to add: until today I was under the impression that my husband was straight and only into women.

   For the past several years our sex life has been worsening. Going down in frequency, even before I got pregnant. I’ve always been the one who initiates.

   I recently came back from a trip and when I was emptying the toilet trash I found a condom in a wrapper. I had emptied the bathroom trash before I left so I definitely found this odd, to say the least.

   I haven’t had a chance to address it and I don’t want to make an accusation… so I did something probably worse and invaded his privacy, looking through his phone.

   Well, in it I found a flickr app and he has an account under a different name and over 30k pictures of sexually explicit nature favorited. The photos are mostly of cross dressing men (as per the album description) in various S&M situations, and some of them just wearing office clothes and boots.

   He’s always been into S&M as well as sexy office clothes and boots and I’ve always known he saves photos but it used to be of women.

   As I mentioned before, I myself find all genders attractive. So I’m not looking down upon this in a homophobic way.

   But I do feel shocked at this part of him I didn’t know and to be honest I’m disturbed by some of the S&M content (not judging just not my personal preference and something I’ve never felt comfortable participating in)

   I’m not sure what to do. I know I opened Pandora’s box, but I’m still wondering about the condom and now I’m wondering if this is an expansion of his sexual proclivities or an adjustment to his preferences.

   We haven’t had sex in two months, not for lack of my trying and I had been feeling like he wasn’t attracted to me anymore.

   Not sure what to do or how to feel. I know I was in the wrong for looking through his phone rather than simply confronting him, but I did it and now I’m here.

   What to do? I feel maybe shocked, I feel a little sad (at the possibility that he’s unhappy and repressed) and I feel very confused.

   He’s been very depressed lately, so I wonder if maybe separating and letting him become who he wants is for the best? (We have other incompatibilities and marital problems) I’m of course also wondering what that condom was about and I’m heart broken that maybe he did cheat on me. But maybe not? Do guys use condoms for masturbation? Maybe he used it for the “back door”?

   Please help!

   Edit: Update : I took many of the commenters’ advice and confronted my husband. It was painful and not very straightforward (at one point he left mid conversation)

   He shared that he’s had this secret since he was a child, and he said that for him it’s that he has a cross dressing fetish. Because of some of the homophobic language he used and his body language I think he has a lot of shame about it and that he isn’t either telling the full story or there’s still some of it that he’s unable to accept.

   He indeed used the condom on himself, using one of my toys while I was gone, anally. Which is also surprising since he’s usually so anti-butt stuff.

   I still feel very conflicted because of all the other issues we have. He says that his porn addiction and his proclivities have nothing to do with our sex life or depression but it’s hard to believe.

   I’m not sure where we go from here. there’s hurt and feelings of betrayal on both ends. But at least we had the first conversation about the topic.

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