What do you mean “your house” presumably it’s both your home?
Your not answering my questions,
Who’s doing the cooking? Regardless of what it is, Who’s doing the cleaning?
When you say your an involved father what does that actually mean? Do you take them to the park? Outings? Organise family days and play dates? Help them with homework?
lol. Seriously bro, it sounds like she going on a date. Them people who tell you “oh well what if she is? you're so insecure”, them people are probably friends or relatives of the guy ?. What I would do if I were in your position, is allow them, then slowly extract yourself from the situation and just go back to being friends so no one offends anyone.
Therapy may be an option if that is what makes you feel proud.
You should be proud your partner is doing well in her studies/work, you should be proud you have a loving partner who wants to do things such as cover the cost of one meal.
If it is an issue that is impacting you relationship, which it clearly is, it is an issue you need to address.
Hispanic people can be any race. Being Hispanic makes her a minority, even if she passes as white.
The Jewish thing may not count as anything if she isn't Jewish herself, but it depends on a lot of things.
If she identifies as Latina, who are you to take that away from her? Her interests don't matter. Assuming she grew up with her mom in her life, she was raised with heavily Cuban influences. It's not really your place to take those experiences away from her.
What do you mean “your house” presumably it’s both your home?
Your not answering my questions,
Who’s doing the cooking? Regardless of what it is, Who’s doing the cleaning?
When you say your an involved father what does that actually mean? Do you take them to the park? Outings? Organise family days and play dates? Help them with homework?
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lol. Seriously bro, it sounds like she going on a date. Them people who tell you “oh well what if she is? you're so insecure”, them people are probably friends or relatives of the guy ?. What I would do if I were in your position, is allow them, then slowly extract yourself from the situation and just go back to being friends so no one offends anyone.
The reaction of blaming it on the adderall?
Therapy may be an option if that is what makes you feel proud.
You should be proud your partner is doing well in her studies/work, you should be proud you have a loving partner who wants to do things such as cover the cost of one meal.
If it is an issue that is impacting you relationship, which it clearly is, it is an issue you need to address.
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Hispanic people can be any race. Being Hispanic makes her a minority, even if she passes as white.
The Jewish thing may not count as anything if she isn't Jewish herself, but it depends on a lot of things.
If she identifies as Latina, who are you to take that away from her? Her interests don't matter. Assuming she grew up with her mom in her life, she was raised with heavily Cuban influences. It's not really your place to take those experiences away from her.