So you are saying that 3 months after a breakup is too soon to get into another relationship.
Not necessarily. Everyone processes things at different speeds. There isn't a universal amount of time it takes to get over a relationship. It may take you longer than that, but someone else less time, and there isn't anything wrong with either of those.
There's going to be risk in any relationship you get into. Everyone has baggage to a certain extent. Is he telling you the truth about being over it? Of course he could be. Could he be unsure? Possibly. Unless he's given you another reason to think he's untrustworthy, I wouldn't jump to him lying
Goodness, you've given your opinion. Move on and let others give theirs. You're really all over this thread and seem super invested in OP breaking up with his girl and because of that I have to wonder why and what issues you may have concerning women. Otherwise I have no idea why you can't just leave your advice and move on like everyone else.
So we have only been together for about 3months and I have a 2yr old and my boyfriend truly tries to help me out but I can’t trust him due to his forgetfulnesses
Sorry, but what? You have a child and this guy has already met your child? WHY? Most parents don't introduce a new SO a good 8-12 months into the relationship, and even often then just as a friend.
. He honestly forgot and that scares me he has even said he doesn’t wanna cook at my place anymore because he’s scared to mess up.. she has also tried to feed me and my toddler under cooked chicken and he’s forgot about meat on the counter (ended up throwing it out) and he was trying to cook burgers and the temp-was at a very high medium
How has he survived up to the age of 34? Is he working on his personal issues with a professional?
Yes it's bad. LMAO. For him and even moreso for you because you are the one who is going to get screwed over. There will always be a power imbalance and tbh, if he was attracted to a student before, what's to say he isn't still attracted to that age of females….which is uh, kinda questionable, kinda illegal.
My dad acts like this and I can tell you it wrecked my self esteem and sense of self to have a parent be so consistently negative. Don't have kids with this guy OP whatever you do
Have you tried speaking to a someone?
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So you are saying that 3 months after a breakup is too soon to get into another relationship.
Not necessarily. Everyone processes things at different speeds. There isn't a universal amount of time it takes to get over a relationship. It may take you longer than that, but someone else less time, and there isn't anything wrong with either of those.
There's going to be risk in any relationship you get into. Everyone has baggage to a certain extent. Is he telling you the truth about being over it? Of course he could be. Could he be unsure? Possibly. Unless he's given you another reason to think he's untrustworthy, I wouldn't jump to him lying
Goodness, you've given your opinion. Move on and let others give theirs. You're really all over this thread and seem super invested in OP breaking up with his girl and because of that I have to wonder why and what issues you may have concerning women. Otherwise I have no idea why you can't just leave your advice and move on like everyone else.
So we have only been together for about 3months and I have a 2yr old and my boyfriend truly tries to help me out but I can’t trust him due to his forgetfulnesses
Sorry, but what? You have a child and this guy has already met your child? WHY? Most parents don't introduce a new SO a good 8-12 months into the relationship, and even often then just as a friend.
. He honestly forgot and that scares me he has even said he doesn’t wanna cook at my place anymore because he’s scared to mess up.. she has also tried to feed me and my toddler under cooked chicken and he’s forgot about meat on the counter (ended up throwing it out) and he was trying to cook burgers and the temp-was at a very high medium
How has he survived up to the age of 34? Is he working on his personal issues with a professional?
Sounds like he'll abandon you at the altar if you insist on going through with it
Sounds like he'll abandon you at the altar if you insist on going through with it
Yes it's bad. LMAO. For him and even moreso for you because you are the one who is going to get screwed over. There will always be a power imbalance and tbh, if he was attracted to a student before, what's to say he isn't still attracted to that age of females….which is uh, kinda questionable, kinda illegal.
Let it go. Block this dude. It's all bad juju.
He’s not your best friend, he’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing
Never heard this thing conceptualised so well
My dad acts like this and I can tell you it wrecked my self esteem and sense of self to have a parent be so consistently negative. Don't have kids with this guy OP whatever you do