It has nothing to do with the chores and everything to do with what you've given and the amount of effort you've put in back, which sounds like very little, he's taken three years out of his life to nurse you, and you couldn't be bothered to give back as you have gotten used to him waiting on you hand and foot. Its finally broken him.
If its from an ex, the shirts would be 18+ years old, as the daughter doesn't live! at home, and this is a recent change from sleeping in the very hot to wearing the shirt.
As someone who was abused with food, i absolutely get it. This IS a big deal. As others have pointed out at the core of this, this isnt about the food and thats the most important part. But as someone with food issues too, if you need it i give you permission too leave him, it isnt fair that what he has technically asked you to do is live through it again without any regard too your feelings. These are all red flags. I wouldve dropped that day. Its ok too let him go this isnt fair.
Is it her house? Are you paying her rent to have the room to yourself? If not it sounds like beggars can’t be choosers.
After a year it’s time to stop mooching when you are 30 and almost 30 and get a place of your own if you want privacy. Unless you both have medical issues maybe the other person should be prioritizing getting a place, even if it’s cheaper and not in the area you want to on-line in.
but all he did was start laughing. He said “see this is why AI is scary” He did say that he agreed with everything chat gpt generated, but I just feel sad. It seems like he isn’t taking my feelings seriously.
What about this says “you really got upset over that?” Type of laugh? It was a vindication, AI is evil, I was right laugh. OP even states that “it seems like he isn't taking my feelings serious”.
Her Boyfriend is clearly immature and OP should just cut thwir losses. Why do you insist on making excuse after excuse? Are you secretly OPs boyfriend? OP is not in the wrong here, she has every right to be upset.
If you love your kitten, you will leave him
It has nothing to do with the chores and everything to do with what you've given and the amount of effort you've put in back, which sounds like very little, he's taken three years out of his life to nurse you, and you couldn't be bothered to give back as you have gotten used to him waiting on you hand and foot. Its finally broken him.
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If its from an ex, the shirts would be 18+ years old, as the daughter doesn't live! at home, and this is a recent change from sleeping in the very hot to wearing the shirt.
As someone who was abused with food, i absolutely get it. This IS a big deal. As others have pointed out at the core of this, this isnt about the food and thats the most important part. But as someone with food issues too, if you need it i give you permission too leave him, it isnt fair that what he has technically asked you to do is live through it again without any regard too your feelings. These are all red flags. I wouldve dropped that day. Its ok too let him go this isnt fair.
Is it her house? Are you paying her rent to have the room to yourself? If not it sounds like beggars can’t be choosers.
After a year it’s time to stop mooching when you are 30 and almost 30 and get a place of your own if you want privacy. Unless you both have medical issues maybe the other person should be prioritizing getting a place, even if it’s cheaper and not in the area you want to on-line in.
Thank you! My head is spinning from all the bullshit in this thread.
but all he did was start laughing. He said “see this is why AI is scary” He did say that he agreed with everything chat gpt generated, but I just feel sad. It seems like he isn’t taking my feelings seriously.
What about this says “you really got upset over that?” Type of laugh? It was a vindication, AI is evil, I was right laugh. OP even states that “it seems like he isn't taking my feelings serious”.
Her Boyfriend is clearly immature and OP should just cut thwir losses. Why do you insist on making excuse after excuse? Are you secretly OPs boyfriend? OP is not in the wrong here, she has every right to be upset.
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