Yes. There's not really much to work through when your partner was banging another person while you're in the next room/same building and was lying to your face about it and gaslighting you until they're painted into a corner.
Her saying sorry doesn't change how messed up or manipulative this has all been. Respect yourself enough to want more than this from the person you love and who is supposed to love you.
I'm honestly adlibing a bit here as he has both said that he is bothered by it and that he doesn't like to talk about it so I don't force him to too much. That's a good catch though, I'll make sure to really be careful about the wording and how in reassuring him.
As for acting that way in bed, it's tiring and I'd rather just be myself and not an actor. I can keep it up for a while but sometimes I just want to have sex and not perform.
And a 40 yo man marrying an 18 yo woman is okay for you because „she‘s a grown ass woman“? Just curious. If you don‘t call out groomers for what they are, they‘ll get away with it.
Just leave and find someone decent. He's not worth your time and kindness.
Yes. There's not really much to work through when your partner was banging another person while you're in the next room/same building and was lying to your face about it and gaslighting you until they're painted into a corner.
Her saying sorry doesn't change how messed up or manipulative this has all been. Respect yourself enough to want more than this from the person you love and who is supposed to love you.
I'm honestly adlibing a bit here as he has both said that he is bothered by it and that he doesn't like to talk about it so I don't force him to too much. That's a good catch though, I'll make sure to really be careful about the wording and how in reassuring him.
As for acting that way in bed, it's tiring and I'd rather just be myself and not an actor. I can keep it up for a while but sometimes I just want to have sex and not perform.
Yah the problem is the adress being so specific, I was thinking maybe data got crossed somehow with his location and so on. Wishful thinking I know
And a 40 yo man marrying an 18 yo woman is okay for you because „she‘s a grown ass woman“? Just curious. If you don‘t call out groomers for what they are, they‘ll get away with it.