I understand that. Which is all the reason NOT to rush into things. That leads to unhealthy relationships, and eventually divorce. And then you're 30+, with baggage.
Women had to be virgins when they got married, and were not to sleep with other guys afterwards either, because the husband needed to be sure any babies that came along were his.
There was never anything like the same pressure on men, who were even encouraged to “sow their wild oats”.
I understand that. Which is all the reason NOT to rush into things. That leads to unhealthy relationships, and eventually divorce. And then you're 30+, with baggage.
Women had to be virgins when they got married, and were not to sleep with other guys afterwards either, because the husband needed to be sure any babies that came along were his.
There was never anything like the same pressure on men, who were even encouraged to “sow their wild oats”.
Especially if her work is “harder” it could make her feel really undervalued.
Being underpaid in a full time job can really do a number on your mental health.
I’m sure she would also love to work half the time for the same pay. Or be earning double what she does now.
Not that OP is doing anything wrong. But it could be throwing up a lot of stuff for her.
Well he’s not just a nice guy. I’m sure he has some expectations from your girlfriend for the really nice $10,000 gift.
Regrets it big time now, realised I give her the world on a daily basis and wants us to carry on. So do I but struggling with how