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Yeah I just wish she didn’t lie to me, why couldn’t she just cut me off before this? Why did she tell me she loved me the morning she left, she could’ve went about it so many different ways and now I’m the one feeling sad, I’m so stupid.
She cheated on you. The trust is gone. If you want it to work, you shouldn't be asking how she can build trust, because she won't be able to. You should be asking how can YOU learn to live without a need for trust from a partner. And that's self-reflecting you need to do to achieve. Meditation, evaluating what you have and feel and what you want. Basically emotionally pulling out of the relationship for at least a while.
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Appropriate time to freeze might be if she felt she might be in physical harm. Don’t freeze if someone is touching you inappropriately and you can safely move. Also, your theory doesn’t really make sense since OP said she didn’t freeze and wasn’t even aware that she was being touched.
Simple: One of them is lying, and it's not the one with timestamped evidence.
You deserve better than the games he's playing.
So your complaining that a man who was seeking an uneven relationship with a younger woman doesn’t actually respect women?
Saying she can't go to bars with or without him is the definition of controlling
It's good that both of you started going to therapy for your own issues as that can only be a good thing.
As for the issue at hand, the only thing she can do is to keep going to therapy and try to get over her trauma. Be warned though that there is a very real chance this doesn't happen as SA is extremely traumatic for people and therapy only helps with some aspects like acceptance that it wasn't the victim's fault and that they're not worth any less because of it happening. The only thing you can do is to give her time and space, openly tell her that for anything related to sex she's in charge and work on building up trust between the two of you. To me this whole thing screams trauma and anxiety due to the trauma and imo the 2 best things against that are therapy and trust.
So yeah, I'd say keep going the way you are and accept whatever outcome ends up happening. You're still young, which may seem kinda funny coming from someone only a few years older, and you've both still got growth to go through. Who knows, maybe in the next 2-3 years you'll simply accept being in a relationship without penetrative sex because you'll be fine with just that, and if you'll want kids there might be alternatives such as adoption to avoid the need for sex. Only time will tell though.
Oh jeez, so that's the thing, she still doesn't realize the hole she's dug for herself and/or is assuming it'll magically solve itself. You can't build a future with someone like this.
It’s just. Be very careful – I’ve been here and it didn’t last longer than 3-4 months, on both occasions (two different girls, different time of life).
Don’t see him anymore. You don’t ‘need’ it. You have what you want already. Anything more will destroy everything.
You HAVE to block him out to your life and socials. Let him meet someone else.