This is really none of your business and the fact that you're making it so just shows you're overstepping. Your friend's gf is not okay with your friendship with her. Your friend doesn't get to keep both her ex and her gf. She has to choose. You just need to sit down and let your ex decide what to do.
I get it, it sucks to lose a friend, but it's hard to believe it's just a friend given how much energy you're putting into not losing her.
Yeah, exactly
This is really none of your business and the fact that you're making it so just shows you're overstepping. Your friend's gf is not okay with your friendship with her. Your friend doesn't get to keep both her ex and her gf. She has to choose. You just need to sit down and let your ex decide what to do.
I get it, it sucks to lose a friend, but it's hard to believe it's just a friend given how much energy you're putting into not losing her.