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I'm not going to lie, it all sounds like a very deliberate attempt to hurt you.
Okay I get it. What do I do? I don’t know if I’m wasting my time with her
Actually the post does say that the other women on the team use the separate changing area. OPs gf is the only woman on the team changing with the men.
Go meet with him. Show him pics of your brother. Take a DNA test along and tell him you're not seeing him again til you can collect his spit to make sure he's not some love child of your parents.
Your advice us awful and should get you banned
Good for you!! Congrats on standing up to this behavior. And I’m glad to hear he’s in therapy
Is there a way you can do it that focuses on him and his needs? 'I can see you're not happy and I'm not enough for you, and right now I think we'd both be happier apart' kind of thing?
He's cheated on you TWICE and yet you're still with him because why? You'll never have peace of mind, he'll cheat again and again.
Not to be harsh, but to lay this out clearly:
You're wondering what to do with a person who has mental illness, an expensive drug habit, no financial skills, an underperforming job, and extremely limited availability.
Well…. you say you love him, but partnerships are about improving your chances of achieving actual life-goals. Is this person helping much, that way?
It sounds like he doesn't.
Came here to say this… He doesn't like ladies.
Okay, fine. You're overreacting. Most men look at naked women. Let it go.
Is that better?
And that's why you don't marry in your 20s, regardless of what media and redpillers say
Whoo, boy. You definitely should not marry until you have talked about what the perfect future for you guys looks like. A prenup is a must anyways, but you should also understand your partner's finances to an extent before marrying – and you need to be sure your values align.
You should also be quite involved with the wedding – enough to understand where the money is going. Weddings are expensive and 10k is actually very little if you plan to have a large wedding. There should be a literal budget you discuss with your partner and the wedding planner. It also doesn't make much sense for you to just transfer the money to your partner, you could agree to cover the cost of the venue that you have discussed beforehand (including the price etc).
Honestly, I have trouble understanding your relationship (which is not necessarily bad, I just don't understand). How much do you guys really communicate? Have you lived together for at least a year to see that you're compatible on that front? Etc.
These very much sound like the behaviours of a narcissist. It's not a healthy relationship and is unlikely to ever be a healthy relationship. My advice would be to break up. As you don't want to hear that, your best bet is therapy for yourself to cope with her abuse until you feel ready to leave.
Honest question, are you looking for a reason to bail? You’re right it does come off as being immature. This happened before you two were together. No cheating involved, no betrayal of trust, nothing like that. It may not be your thing and you may not understand it but is this the hill you want to die on? It’s not my thing either but I wouldn’t put much thought into it if a potential SO shared that they’ve received one before. I get that it was with a random person but would you be having the same problem if you found out he had a few one night stands as well?
On the surface, it seems a platonic relationship, that might even benefit your marriage if it has gotten your husband to change his attitude and behaviour towards you. – yes the lying is bad, and something that would need to be addressed.
Unfortunately the surface isn’t always the truth.
His friendship with her does also seem kinda inappropriate, as you say 2 people unhappy in their marriages talking about it, often leads to cheating.
Either way you need to talk to him. Write everything you want to say down, stay calm, and try not to use accusatory language. Go over how uncomfortable his friendship makes you feel, especially as he has been so distant with you. Tell him especially how uncomfortable you were with him unilaterally inviting complete strangers into your home for the holidays. Tell him about the conversation with her, how annoyed you were that he had lied to you about talking about your relationship with other people. Tell him (if this statement is true) that you want to believe him, and want to continue to fix things in your relationship, but that you need him to be 100% truthful with you about her.
She's 100% hiding something and projecting it on you by being shady with your phone.
Immediately there are two things you should do.
Stop letting her take your phone. Protect your privacy and autonomy. That's your phone, not hers. Change your passcode, remove her biometrics.
Make a decision. Based on her recent change of behaviors, how much do you trust her?
OP, this is a huge red flag. You have some decisions to make. Immediately, I'd not move in with this person.
Do not advise people to harass their exes spouse. She would have contacted OP if she wanted to know anything. Leave the wife out of this.
It's not less than 5% but I get your point
lol no it’s not? I also don’t hang out weekly or go to the gym together with that friend. I have seen that friend a total of 3 times after that incident – because we do indeed go to the same school. and that was way over a month ago
He owes her nothing. But if she needs resources, like rides to medical appointments, talk to her medical care providers about any programs, resources or benefits available to her.
What you need to do now is go to Human Resources and report him for harassing you at work, or tell him that you will do that. If his wife finds out about your emotional affair with him and goes to HR on you two, you could end up getting fired. Take the initiative and be blunt about stopping him from bothering you.
Lastly, do you ever want to “win” a married man? That alone should be enough to get you over him.
Well since you are really not seeking advice but instead just want someone to agree with you, I’ll just say go ahead and get a divorce, he’s a terrible, you’re better off etc.
You lost me the minute you claimed you have a “right” over him. People are not your property, even in a marriage.
Thank you so much!! I hope so too