u/xkirbz since your reply to me got deleted by Reddit for some reason, I'll have to reply to you this way. It's really rich of you to tell me to go back to school when you seem to lack proper reading comprehension. 1. I never claimed that one night was enough to qualify as grooming. 2. I very clearly stated that I don't know if this particular relationship is a result of grooming. I never said it was. I said it was a possibility (which would obviously have happened after the night of their first meeting). 3. My comment was mostly in response to someone claiming that a 20 year old couldn't possibly be groomed, which is just false. My comment was meant to educate people that grooming isn't just happening to minors but can happen to adults as well. It was not necessary to explain to me what adult grooming entails because I know that.
You should dump him. By his logic, you shouldn’t: go to the movies; use public transportation; take a flight; go to school; or ever be in a crowd, ever.
You didn’t “get yourself sick” unless you were licking door handles.
I’m thinking he didn’t want you to go to the rave in the first place, and now he gets to rub your “poor decision” in your face. Just tell him to STFU.
I know people on this sub joke about always jumping right to divorce, but this would be a deal breaker for me. I might be extra sensitive because my cat just died last week, but I would not be able to stay married to, on-line with, or even speak to this man again. AND he let you frantically search the entire house before telling you where the cat was? He’s a huge asshole.
I think you should collect the gifts and return them. Then you should break up with her and move on with your life. She sounds shallow and uncaring of you and your thoughtfulness. Just return her to the girls on a shelf shelf and find a nicer girlfriend – I'm sure you'll be able to do that easily.
Yeah, I got domestic violence vibes from this post
In some years she's going to look back at this and cringe. Or she will actually be a cat
It may not be emotionally cheating as in she loves him, but moreso she just likes the attention.
Keeping an ex on the hook while getting serious is a red flag.
I'd have a long engagement to make sure she's ready to settle down.
u/xkirbz since your reply to me got deleted by Reddit for some reason, I'll have to reply to you this way. It's really rich of you to tell me to go back to school when you seem to lack proper reading comprehension. 1. I never claimed that one night was enough to qualify as grooming. 2. I very clearly stated that I don't know if this particular relationship is a result of grooming. I never said it was. I said it was a possibility (which would obviously have happened after the night of their first meeting). 3. My comment was mostly in response to someone claiming that a 20 year old couldn't possibly be groomed, which is just false. My comment was meant to educate people that grooming isn't just happening to minors but can happen to adults as well. It was not necessary to explain to me what adult grooming entails because I know that.
I think OC was referring to romantic attraction. Not physical. That's also what I meant.
Is this art
You should dump him. By his logic, you shouldn’t: go to the movies; use public transportation; take a flight; go to school; or ever be in a crowd, ever.
You didn’t “get yourself sick” unless you were licking door handles.
I’m thinking he didn’t want you to go to the rave in the first place, and now he gets to rub your “poor decision” in your face. Just tell him to STFU.
You don’t deserve to be constantly berated.
I know people on this sub joke about always jumping right to divorce, but this would be a deal breaker for me. I might be extra sensitive because my cat just died last week, but I would not be able to stay married to, on-line with, or even speak to this man again. AND he let you frantically search the entire house before telling you where the cat was? He’s a huge asshole.
I think you should collect the gifts and return them. Then you should break up with her and move on with your life. She sounds shallow and uncaring of you and your thoughtfulness. Just return her to the girls on a shelf shelf and find a nicer girlfriend – I'm sure you'll be able to do that easily.
was it after your sex change? what do you get out of trolling?