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Talk to her. She’s ur partner. Tell her what u heard and ask her about it. See what she says and go from there. Good luck.
He may be authentically polyamorous and just unaware
Exactly how long ago was this 'past relationship' that he blames his behavior on it if he's been with you for 4 freaking years now?? He cannot use his past as an excuse for present behavior for literal years on end. No. That's unacceptable. “Put up with my shitty behavior for years because I don't want to address my 'trauma' and put it to rest' is not an option anymore. You need to make that brutally clear to him. He doesn't get to keep clobbering you over the head for the pain someone else caused him years ago.
Draw the line now. Tell him straight up that verbally abusing you for someone else's mistakes is done as of now and that you expect him to get help with his shit starting immediately and you will not accept excuses of any kind. You will require regular updates as to his progress in getting help – I suggest twice a week 'reports' – and proof that he is doing so. Tell him if he balks at or resists any of this, that means he doesn't take his abuse seriously and does not think it is that big of a deal. Make sure he understands it's a huge deal and, again, is completely unacceptable behaviour and in order to continue your relationship he will need to make stopping the abuse a top priority.
Then see what he does. If he really is remorseful about abusing you he would do everything in his power to get control of it. But I suspect that's not what will happen. He might start out all 'Yes! Anything! I promise!' but the whining, minimizing and negotiations will come up pretty quickly, in the form of the following:
Why do we have to check in about this every week? That seems like too often. You don't even give me a chance to actually do anything. Why cant I just let you know when I've done something? (whining & negotiating. Not checking in frequently gives him time to 'slack off' and not be held accountable when in actuality, working on not abusing you should be extremely high on his daily priority list)
Why do I have to get counseling/therapy? Why can't we just talk or I'll do some reading on-line? I don't have the money / time / personality for counseling/therapy (whining & negotiating. His 'Yes yes yes! I'll do anything, I swear!' has become 'wahhh do I have to??')
I'm not that bad. You're making me sound like a monster. I mean, I shouldn't get as mad as I do maybe but you know that shit pisses me off but you still do it (whining & minimizing. Again, at the beginning he will acknowledge that what he is doing is unacceptable but mere days/weeks into having to take responsibility and do the actual work, he'll start back-pedalling. Now you're exaggerating / overreacting / punishing him / abusing him by expecting him to 'jump through hoops' to please you)
You'll recognize pretty quickly if he has no intention of stopping the abuse. I suggest you start working on your exit plan while he works on himself.
Can you love someone without being in love? Can you be in love if you never fell in love? Do people love their parents and their children?
No no no no no no no. You just blamed her for getting raped instead of the assholes who took advantage of her.
Women can manipulate with emotion just the same as men can manipulate with anger & yelling (another emotion). I think she’s still being manipulative. You can’t just turn off emotion and it’s scary that she did. I can definitely give a cold shoulder when pissed but I can’t just shut off all my emotions.
Therapy sounds like a good idea for you both.
He wants me to maintain my house
How much drinking was involved?