So, since you added “kisses” in the title but mention you've done foreplay before I'm guessing she changed her boundary on you? It really sucks, but if touching and kissing, even if no sex, are important love languages for you, you may no longer be compatible with this change.
It's okay for that to be the case. Make sure you clarify what her boundaries are so you're sure, and if you don't see yourself able to do wait for marriage or feel she's doing this to force you to marry her sooner and you're not okay with that, you are completely in the clear to end the relationship.
Don't try to force her boundaries to change or you may find yourself being a jerk, but be careful of if she's using this as manipulation, which isn't okay either, but doesn't change that you should still respect the boundary.
You obviously had reason to not trust him to find him on dating apps. So now you know he “just chats when he is bored” so basically told you suck it up like he watches tv when bored. That’s cheating and if you forgive cheating, it will happen again. 6 months no one should be looking at other people. So he is basically saying he’s bored in the relationship (sorry but I don’t want you hurt any further)
Second of all, HE specially told me to save up $150k (which I did) and he told me that he would put down the rest ($300k) so don’t tell me that I’m not in a position to tell him we need this much or that much. If anyone was being a “dictator” it was him.
Lmao just cuz he makes 7x more then me doesn’t mean I have 7 times less then him saved up. I make 7x less then him and I HAVE $150k saved up. If anything that should tell you about who is irresponsible and who isn’t in this case.
Maybe he knows he’s creepy af with the age difference and doesn’t want everyone to see that he’s a creep
So, since you added “kisses” in the title but mention you've done foreplay before I'm guessing she changed her boundary on you? It really sucks, but if touching and kissing, even if no sex, are important love languages for you, you may no longer be compatible with this change.
It's okay for that to be the case. Make sure you clarify what her boundaries are so you're sure, and if you don't see yourself able to do wait for marriage or feel she's doing this to force you to marry her sooner and you're not okay with that, you are completely in the clear to end the relationship.
Don't try to force her boundaries to change or you may find yourself being a jerk, but be careful of if she's using this as manipulation, which isn't okay either, but doesn't change that you should still respect the boundary.
You obviously had reason to not trust him to find him on dating apps. So now you know he “just chats when he is bored” so basically told you suck it up like he watches tv when bored. That’s cheating and if you forgive cheating, it will happen again. 6 months no one should be looking at other people. So he is basically saying he’s bored in the relationship (sorry but I don’t want you hurt any further)
First of all. I have $150k saved up.
Second of all, HE specially told me to save up $150k (which I did) and he told me that he would put down the rest ($300k) so don’t tell me that I’m not in a position to tell him we need this much or that much. If anyone was being a “dictator” it was him.
Lmao just cuz he makes 7x more then me doesn’t mean I have 7 times less then him saved up. I make 7x less then him and I HAVE $150k saved up. If anything that should tell you about who is irresponsible and who isn’t in this case.
Your logic is sad.