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I swing with my husband. I have some advice for you.
My first piece of advice is to open your mind to what everyone here is saying: this age gap is alarming and a big red flag. Well adjusted 44 year old people don't have much in common with 22 year olds. The older person usually is interested in two things: sex, and control.
My second piece of advice is that no one should swing r dabble in any type of non-monogamy unless both parties are enthusiastic and excited about it.
Swinging is risky behavior. It can bring challenges to the relationship that being monogamous doesn't. It puts you at risk for assault. It puts you at a higher risk for STIs. People who swing in the healthiest/safest way possible usually do the following:
Get tested regularly and happily share those results
Use condoms (remember that STIs like herpes, HPV and pubic lice can spread even if you use a condom).
Teach and use guidelines for consent, check in regularly for consent, openly ask/share boundaries and sexual preferences.
Honestly, your age gap, your youth, and the relative newness of your relationship should throw up some red flags for the more safe/responsible/kind type of swingers.
From a relationship standpoint, I worry that you don't have the foundation of trust and good communication that swinging requires. You just haven't been together long enough.
Have you had a talk about boundaries, how far you are comfortable going? Are you okay seeing him fool around with another woman? If you do decide to go forward with this, you guys should be having lots of serious conversations about what exactly your boundaries look like, how you will check in during the party, and a phrase that you can use to let each other know you're out of your comfort zone.
If this is unusual behaviour for him you have a right to be worried. Do you have SMs in common? (Ie do you have any other way to see if he’s been live?)