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Thank you I needed this! I don’t have a problem with anyone’s style of texting and I definitely don’t need daily texts or good mornings, my anxiety just sometimes makes me go to ‘oh no he’s over me’.
Please sit down and have open and frank discussions now. My wife and I fell apart from our long marriage and kids because we didn’t calmly talk about more, especially helping each other. Silence takes hold and becomes poison
don't fake your reaction, that's highly counterproductive and honestly potentially emotionally manipulative, also don't ignore her because that's potentially showing malice to your partner engaging in a form of emotional vulnerability.
You need to have a honest and potentially difficult conversation about how nudes can't be used as a band-aid when you have genuine difficulties.
because you went through the trouble of posting this live clearly it is causing emotional strife, you need to communicate these things. let her know this is not how you would like conflict to be resolved, and that while you appreciate her attempts to make you feel better, in the future she should use other methods to go about that.
I may have a different view point on trust than some others, but…
I don't believe that questioning something your partner is doing in a relationship to be indicative of a total lack of trust. When you really think about it, the expectation of someone buying what you say about every single topic 100% of the time is really a bit of a high ask. I know I have never personally done it with anyone. And when you know someone like how you know your own partner/spouse, it's not that hot to see changes that signal something not being quite right. The whole “just trust them” thing kind of allows room for someone knowing something isn't right to be made to feel like they're crazy, so they do nothing and let things go while they suffer silently through that nagging gut feeling. Personally, I just don't think it's right.
Now, if it were me and with that in mind, I could understand how my husband may at one point have a feeling that something just isn't right and I would let him do whatever he feels he needs to do in order to assuage that feeling. I wouldn't consider it “controlling” because he is my husband and I owe him peace of mind.
Her offering to allow you to look at it could be that there is really nothing going on and she has no problem with you seeing it. It could be that depending on how this happens, she could take advanced precautions knowing this may be coming and get rid of anything incriminating. It could be that while she is not saying anything inappropriate, that doesn't mean an emotional affair is not going on and some people classify an emotional affair as Microcheating.
An emotional affair mimics an the emotional bond you have with a significant other and it doesn't have to take a physical aspect. But, it also doesn't have to show up through sexual innuendo or anything like that, either. It can be 100% about how the relationship makes them feel (like when you meet someone you click with, you get butterflies, look forward to talking to them, put other priorities on the backburner) and how it is affecting their actual relationship, sometimes even being unintentional. That may be what is happening here and why she has no problem with you seeing her phone – she hasn't said anything inappropriate, so she may not realize that she is, indeed, having an inappropriate relationship.
In my opinion, any relationship that makes your partner feel insecure or neglected (within reason), is an inappropriate relationship. Especially if they refuse to listen to their concerns and just dismisses them.
As for this…
Also, she takes everything he says at face value, going as far as to say that he wasn’t to blame for something that was his fault at work purely because “he told me it wasn’t him”. Is this odd or typical of platonic friends?
You ever get with/met someone and you're so enamored with them that they just seem soooo perfect? Sometimes even in the face of massive red flags you didnt see flying until later? Thats what this sounds like to me.
Now, I'm just speaking off opinions and my own personal experience. I've had something very similar happen in the past. He hadn't done anything physically inappropriate with her and he dismissed me telling him that he was emotionally cheating and I think he did it because he honestly didn't realize he was doing it until I asked him if talking to that woman elicited any feelings he didn't get when talking to a male friend. It took him a bit, but eventually he did realize that what I told him was happening was, in fact, what was happening.
So, in the end, if this is unusual behavior that she never had toward any other legitimate friend, then yeah. I wouldn't buy what she was saying at face value.
He obviously is not a normal, stable guy and doesn't seem to have any reservations about manipulating and/or hurting you. You can't change that. But even if you try to “pay him off,” he's likely to keep harassing you and demanding more from you. Anyone with such a personality is not the type to think, “Well, she reimbursed me for all of the gifts I sent her, so I consider the matter between us completely settled, and I will never contact her again.”
The safest thing I can recommend is that you simply cease all contact with him. Yes, he may decide to do something to hurt you, but he will always have that option. And if he does, then you will have to deal with it, when/if it happens. But right now, maintaining contact with him is only going to hurt you.
They stopped talking. Per him after fooling around with her he felt something was wrong about them and he just wanted be friends with her. The girl disappeared from his life and eventually got married. He didn’t block her. She is in his FB. After we got married they still didn’t talk. But he did wish her on her birthday on FB saying ‘Happy Birthday xxxx ❤️❤️’ and now this. Now he has blocked her after all this. But my mind just keep thinking what was his motive to call her when you have everything right going on in your relationship. I did ask him if there’s anything wrong in our relationship and he said no. But when he gets drunk things become ugly. He says things like he is not satisfied physically. We are not having good sex and all that. But when I ask about this when he is sober he just denies and says there’s nothing wrong.
Thank you I needed this! I don’t have a problem with anyone’s style of texting and I definitely don’t need daily texts or good mornings, my anxiety just sometimes makes me go to ‘oh no he’s over me’.
Please sit down and have open and frank discussions now. My wife and I fell apart from our long marriage and kids because we didn’t calmly talk about more, especially helping each other. Silence takes hold and becomes poison
Not concerned about stds or pregnancy though?
Bruh stfu she has one body and that’s me
don't fake your reaction, that's highly counterproductive and honestly potentially emotionally manipulative, also don't ignore her because that's potentially showing malice to your partner engaging in a form of emotional vulnerability.
You need to have a honest and potentially difficult conversation about how nudes can't be used as a band-aid when you have genuine difficulties.
because you went through the trouble of posting this live clearly it is causing emotional strife, you need to communicate these things. let her know this is not how you would like conflict to be resolved, and that while you appreciate her attempts to make you feel better, in the future she should use other methods to go about that.
None of your business.
That dislike will slowly turn into hate. Better break up now. Loneliness can be scary for some, but it's better than settling in an unhappy situation
Maybe OP's husband might have been the more skilled and efficient employee?
Updateme
I may have a different view point on trust than some others, but…
I don't believe that questioning something your partner is doing in a relationship to be indicative of a total lack of trust. When you really think about it, the expectation of someone buying what you say about every single topic 100% of the time is really a bit of a high ask. I know I have never personally done it with anyone. And when you know someone like how you know your own partner/spouse, it's not that hot to see changes that signal something not being quite right. The whole “just trust them” thing kind of allows room for someone knowing something isn't right to be made to feel like they're crazy, so they do nothing and let things go while they suffer silently through that nagging gut feeling. Personally, I just don't think it's right.
Now, if it were me and with that in mind, I could understand how my husband may at one point have a feeling that something just isn't right and I would let him do whatever he feels he needs to do in order to assuage that feeling. I wouldn't consider it “controlling” because he is my husband and I owe him peace of mind.
Her offering to allow you to look at it could be that there is really nothing going on and she has no problem with you seeing it. It could be that depending on how this happens, she could take advanced precautions knowing this may be coming and get rid of anything incriminating. It could be that while she is not saying anything inappropriate, that doesn't mean an emotional affair is not going on and some people classify an emotional affair as Microcheating.
An emotional affair mimics an the emotional bond you have with a significant other and it doesn't have to take a physical aspect. But, it also doesn't have to show up through sexual innuendo or anything like that, either. It can be 100% about how the relationship makes them feel (like when you meet someone you click with, you get butterflies, look forward to talking to them, put other priorities on the backburner) and how it is affecting their actual relationship, sometimes even being unintentional. That may be what is happening here and why she has no problem with you seeing her phone – she hasn't said anything inappropriate, so she may not realize that she is, indeed, having an inappropriate relationship.
In my opinion, any relationship that makes your partner feel insecure or neglected (within reason), is an inappropriate relationship. Especially if they refuse to listen to their concerns and just dismisses them.
As for this…
Also, she takes everything he says at face value, going as far as to say that he wasn’t to blame for something that was his fault at work purely because “he told me it wasn’t him”. Is this odd or typical of platonic friends?
You ever get with/met someone and you're so enamored with them that they just seem soooo perfect? Sometimes even in the face of massive red flags you didnt see flying until later? Thats what this sounds like to me.
Now, I'm just speaking off opinions and my own personal experience. I've had something very similar happen in the past. He hadn't done anything physically inappropriate with her and he dismissed me telling him that he was emotionally cheating and I think he did it because he honestly didn't realize he was doing it until I asked him if talking to that woman elicited any feelings he didn't get when talking to a male friend. It took him a bit, but eventually he did realize that what I told him was happening was, in fact, what was happening.
So, in the end, if this is unusual behavior that she never had toward any other legitimate friend, then yeah. I wouldn't buy what she was saying at face value.
He obviously is not a normal, stable guy and doesn't seem to have any reservations about manipulating and/or hurting you. You can't change that. But even if you try to “pay him off,” he's likely to keep harassing you and demanding more from you. Anyone with such a personality is not the type to think, “Well, she reimbursed me for all of the gifts I sent her, so I consider the matter between us completely settled, and I will never contact her again.”
The safest thing I can recommend is that you simply cease all contact with him. Yes, he may decide to do something to hurt you, but he will always have that option. And if he does, then you will have to deal with it, when/if it happens. But right now, maintaining contact with him is only going to hurt you.
You know what would be a worse nightmare? if he became very jealous and controlling now that he had you trapped.
They stopped talking. Per him after fooling around with her he felt something was wrong about them and he just wanted be friends with her. The girl disappeared from his life and eventually got married. He didn’t block her. She is in his FB. After we got married they still didn’t talk. But he did wish her on her birthday on FB saying ‘Happy Birthday xxxx ❤️❤️’ and now this. Now he has blocked her after all this. But my mind just keep thinking what was his motive to call her when you have everything right going on in your relationship. I did ask him if there’s anything wrong in our relationship and he said no. But when he gets drunk things become ugly. He says things like he is not satisfied physically. We are not having good sex and all that. But when I ask about this when he is sober he just denies and says there’s nothing wrong.