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I am so, so sorry for your and your wife’s losses. What you are going through is terrible. I can’t even imagine the pain you feel. I hope you can still carry on with some hope.
After reading some of your replies, I just wanted to second the idea of individual therapy, and that one redditor that mentioned Compassionate Friends. You and your wife can get through this, but grief takes many forms and looks so different for everyone. It seems that you understand how the grief is affecting your relationship, but make sure you realize that you must do what you have to do in order to get through this. If you and your wife’s relationship gets so toxic that it ruins you, don’t be afraid to put yourself first. This does not necessarily mean it must be a divorce or separation. It could be living separately but still seeing each other, or even just doing more activities that are independent from one another.
I would highly recommend doing an activity or hobby that gives you happiness and the feeling of purpose: pick up an instrument, try rock climbing, get into exercise, take dance classes, try yoga, etc.. It may feel purposeless at first, but doing so may help you a lot in the long term.
I am just a stranger and you are not obligated to anyone’s advice here. Therapy and professionals are your best bet. You can, and you will get through this. I wish you nothing but the best.
Dump him. You’re not mature enough to be in a healthy marriage if you’re actually considering making an issue out of this.
It's really not. He's judging his friend as 'sinful' over something he has absolutely no control over. We online who we love and the people who love us accept that and should accept us unconditionally.
Moreover half this comment section is into kinkshaming and victim blaming they CANNOT GIVE YOU GOOD ADVICE. SEEK A PROFESSIONAL!!!!
How was she supporting herself before you moved in together?
Coconut, you're describing a GF who seems to have a very strong abandonment fear. That would explain why, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — and may have tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members.
She would view your spending time with your friends/family as your choosing them over her. It also would explain why she's unable to trust you — and why she probably hates being alone by herself.
This strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
Coconut, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
I don’t believe there is anything legal I can do here. Everything is in her name and it’s all a he said she said situation since it was never part of the probate.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. This is abuse. He’s taken away your autonomy. You are not an object he gets to use and play with. Please see your doctor and get some therapy.
Idk… seems like its not really a healthy relationship.
You can’t just get hornier – especially when you want to it gets even harder. Its like when a guy asks you to cum now. Like wtf you want to happen- that pussy is a desert now. Same with girls – cum in me… like nope – now i’m thinking i want to cum and because of that it will not happen.
His paranoia seems to be deeply rooted – you’re probably kind of attractive and he himself has some self esteem issues too.
I would end this relationship. It doesn’t help to magically get a higher libido to help his high sex drive- what btw i think is the consequence of a depression of him. He tries to get more dopamin/serotonin by having lots of sex to lower the effects of his depression.
Meanwhile you seem to feel extremely pressurized, not only the paranoia part but also the sex part seems to put you under lots of stress, resulting in a lower libido and psychological problems.
The problem is not you but this guy.
Good luck
Wish fulfillment written by the guy who got bullied
He's 34yo. You can't fix him and he's had years (years) to fix himself.
He clearly doesn't see you as an equal. Nor does he enjoy seeing your success.
Among other things, a life partner should encourage you to online the best version of your life. Maybe it's time to re access this relationship.
Why date someone that old? If you want someone with a more hyper active sex drive, wouldn't it make sense to date someone younger??