I (23F) have been hiding birth control from my husband (25M). What do I do?
6KWe have an 11 month old daughter. My husband has always said that he wanted a close age gap between kids, “2 under 2” type. So right around when she turned 8 months, he wanted to start trying for baby #2. I’m not ready to have another baby yet. I want to give my body more time to recover and to just be myself without being pregnant for a bit. We’re still young and have plenty of time to have kids- I don’t get what the rush is. I told him this but he kept insisting/pressuring me. So for the past 3 months, I’ve been taking birth control without him knowing. I feel bad, and it’s nude to hide it when we’re with each other all the time. Obviously I’ll stop taking it when I’m ready, but for the time being I feel like it’s what’s best for me and intend on sticking with it- should I? Or should I tell him? I don’t know what his reaction would be and don’t want to cause bigger problems.
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