I [25 M] feel really confused by what I simply went through with my GF [26 F] tonight. I feel like I was physically assaulted, but I’m unsure if that is the proper term. I apologize if it isn’t. Offers anyone else been through this?
4KJust a mind up, I apologize for the TMI details in this, but it' s the only way to help me personally explain it.
Long plus short we have been dating just for 4 years. Living collectively for 2 years. Both people are perfect fits for every other, and neither of us want kids. This has been well known and discussed since day 1 of our partnership.
We were having a excellent night tonight, out and about with some close friends, drinking involved. Just before we went out she described having sex, but I mentioned we didn' t have got time because we were already running late for our dinner reservation with said close friends. I told her we can ensure it is happen once we got home later. She understood.
We get home at the end of the night, have a few more drinks and finally hit the existe. We engage in aforementioned sex and she is on top. All of a sudden she keeps repeating ' cum inside me. ' Literally 15-20 times. We keep telling her simply no, absolutely not (Keep in mind she has done this before whilst intoxicated, and the next morning she apologizes and thank you me for not doing so. Also in previous circumstances she’d mention it once and that' s it… as well as the only time she really does alcohol is involved). For some reason after her saying it multiple times, I am getting nearer and closer (the guy in me I guess? ). Once I am super near, I tell her. Usually when I tell her I am close she hops off and assists me finish with her hand, but tonight the girl locked her thighs towards my body and pushed lower. I kept telling her to get off and she mentioned no . She said again ' cum inside me personally. ' I tried to force her off but she fought against it and kept forcing herself on me. I ended up getting her off, forcefully but without having injury, before I arrived and she actually got pissed at me for doing so.
I am extremely confused at the moment as I am typing this particular. I don' t even know how to approach something like this tomorrow morning. She instantly passed out after this occurred and here I sit inside my keyboard.
Thanks to anyone who has read this and has any advice. I' ll be here if anyone has any kind of questions about the situation.
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He pressed the issue and asked me a bunch of times why I hate it so much. Finally I told him it looks creepy and reminds me of a pedophile. I answered his question. It was not my first approach.
I didn’t like my husband’s mustache. He doesn’t have it anymore. I had him grow a goatee.
The default for cheating is sex. If you want it to be something else then that's a discussion you need to have within your relationship.
But does it matter if it's cheating? You say she knew this was a line for you, is that not enough?
You think i should've talk to both of them at the same time? Or not at all? I understand now that it was not a good idea
My advice is to mind your business. Unless it’s a language barrier issue between you and I, your concern is that someone other than yourself is getting gifts. That isn’t something to cause an issue over. You seem to think something might be wrong. Well yes, something could be/go wrong pretty all of the time. This isn’t a reason to interfere with relationships and make whatever accusations you’re hoping to make.