I (f28) think I just watched my (m33) husband cheat on me during a threesome. Is that what just happened?
2KI like actually don’t know what to make of this, I’m so confused and honestly hurt. I’m not sure that anyone will have any advice but please if you do, I need someone’s help.
My husband and I, for the majority of our relationship, have been very open for non-monogamous sex. Never by ourselves, but with each other and another person. Over the years we’ve had many threesomes with other girls and we’ve both very much enjoyed it. For the past like two-ish years we’ve had one standard “other” girl who we would see a lot. We stopped seeing her because she wanted to explore more serious relationships, and that was totally fine.
Since then my husband had been interested in trying it out with another specific girl. I was open to it, obviously, and we met with her several times. She was very attractive, kind, and confident with this whole thing (which is important because I hate the “shy” persona some girls have, it makes me feel weird). I thought she was a great match. Yet when we had our first encounter… I realized quickly I was more a bystander than an active participant. I literally felt like that scene in friends where Ross says he was just there with Carol and Susan lmao. She was allll over my husband which okay we’re literally have sex so fine, but it was just entirely too much. Every time my husband tried to make her include me… if you know what I mean… she simply wouldn’t. Even though we all said prior that all of it that is fine. And when they were having sex… I could’ve thrown up. It was so intimate when it never is like that. The way they were looking at each other- it brought tears to my eyes. I was literally sitting there on the bed, completely nude, watching my husband make love to another woman. Not fuck another woman, because that doesn’t bother me, but make love to her.
I asked my husband afterwards what that was all about and he admitted that she was a little too into him, and not enough into me (which is his entire turn-on anyway). We both said she’s probably not a good match and that sucks but he says it’s not that big of a deal. To me, it’s a big deal. I feel horrible. I mean I know we have an unusual situation but like, you would feel horrible too right? He’s apologized but I just cant get that image out of my head.
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