I've slipped 3 disc's in my life and there is no way I could clean or watch kids for a few days after. He shouldn't have volunteered for sure.
When you weigh out responsibilities make sure you credit him the 20+ hours of mandatory overtime as housework as he has no control over it and it is more hours than you are working.
He continues this behaviour because you tolerate it
Your future is in your hands
I've slipped 3 disc's in my life and there is no way I could clean or watch kids for a few days after. He shouldn't have volunteered for sure.
When you weigh out responsibilities make sure you credit him the 20+ hours of mandatory overtime as housework as he has no control over it and it is more hours than you are working.