Maybe be honest with your husband. “I'm starting to have feelings for my coworker. I kinda want to sleep with him hubby, what do you think?” And watch his reaction. I'd love to hear how he tells you no. Personally, if you really want things to work with hubby that you claim to love, don't cheat. Men don't forgive cheating like women do in my experience.
She needs serious psychiatric help. You should break up with her. Once you break up with you, I encourage you to seek therapy because the incident you describe sounds pretty traumatic and you might need help working through it.
Had something similar happen to me a few years back. Later found out the guy was into being degraded so we just weren’t sexually compatible. It could be something similar or something to do with the personality disorder diagnosis. In any event, it’s not you so don’t get hung up on this.
She didn’t send that “by accident.” She knew exactly what she was doing and she’s continuing it by messaging you. She’s trying to worm her way in between you and her sister. Watch out, bud … things are about to get very messy.
Maybe be honest with your husband. “I'm starting to have feelings for my coworker. I kinda want to sleep with him hubby, what do you think?” And watch his reaction. I'd love to hear how he tells you no. Personally, if you really want things to work with hubby that you claim to love, don't cheat. Men don't forgive cheating like women do in my experience.
It should definitely be very disturbing.
Her mask has slipped and now you're seeing the true malignance she always had underneath.
Despite the reputation, Thailand is not the only place that has a plentiful amount of sex workers.
She needs serious psychiatric help. You should break up with her. Once you break up with you, I encourage you to seek therapy because the incident you describe sounds pretty traumatic and you might need help working through it.
Get out that label maker bud
Had something similar happen to me a few years back. Later found out the guy was into being degraded so we just weren’t sexually compatible. It could be something similar or something to do with the personality disorder diagnosis. In any event, it’s not you so don’t get hung up on this.
these are grown women, not girls, although this whole situation is definitely immature on your part
She didn’t send that “by accident.” She knew exactly what she was doing and she’s continuing it by messaging you. She’s trying to worm her way in between you and her sister. Watch out, bud … things are about to get very messy.